"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Braces 34 years old!!! IS That big of a deal?

NeedToImprove

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Yep that's right , finally i'm gonna use them, i had crooked teeth my parent's couldn't afford them when i was a kid and so now i talked to my dentist so she said that age my isn't a major issue of concern. I dont know when im gonna advance to get them but possibly july (1500 € + control consults €50 each so all in all it's a total of €2000).

I wonder what the major issues of using them are besides having to use them 1year + . Are they a big turn off with women, will i pass as a geek or something. Has anyone had really bad experiences? The only thing that motivates me is that i will have the possibility to smile to girls more often.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You will get NO action with braces. I have seen myself get NO girls since I got mine fitted and I'm 17 but did amazingly beforehand, so at 34 I'm sure you are screwed in terms of women if you get them.

Here's my advice:

Pay the money, and get them fitted on the back of your teeth, you will thank yourself later, I promise. There are lots of stealth-methods and I STRONGLY suggest you use them instead of the normal ways. If you get normal braces you will find it VERY hard to get attention from females.
 

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aaronlava said:
If you have game y ou'll still get *****.
Your progress will be SEVERELY hindered. Definitely agree with
this guys advice to get clear ones, but even then, I think they might be more noticeable than on the back.
 

NeedToImprove

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but even if i have to deal with them 1 year + , and get no p**sy the final results will compensate in the future right?
 

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Damn. Braces suck. I had them removed early because I just couldn't stand em any longer.

But, if you need em. You need em. There are plenty of adults who wear braces. Who cares what other people think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what about invisiline?? they are clear.
 

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Look, the only way it will hinder you is if YOU LET IT! I went bald by the age of 20. A lot of guys would assume that they had no chance of getting a hot girl after that, but I do just fine. A lot of guys that lose their hair also lose their CONFIDENCE, which is what kills them with the ladies. So stay confident. I'm sure some girls will even think its "cute". Besides, a quality girl will appreciate that you're trying to improve yourself, no?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jnice48146 said:
Look, the only way it will hinder you is if YOU LET IT! I went bald by the age of 20. A lot of guys would assume that they had no chance of getting a hot girl after that, but I do just fine. A lot of guys that lose their hair also lose their CONFIDENCE, which is what kills them with the ladies. So stay confident. I'm sure some girls will even think its "cute". Besides, a quality girl will appreciate that you're trying to improve yourself, no?
Exactly.

Braces, of course, are not ideal. But they'll only slow you down if you let them. If I meet some awesome girl, and she happens to have braces, I'm not gonna let that stop me from getting her.
 

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I've braces now. I had a choice between getting the normal ones or expensive hidden ones. I got the normal braces and to be honest I don't think anybody in their right mind would have a problem with braces. In fact it shows you're looking after your teeth which is a good sign.
 

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I got braces pretty late in life. I was in my early 20s. Who cares if it looked weird for a year or so. When I got them off, my teeth were perfect. It was the best $1500 bucks I ever spent. Do it. If you think it looks weird at 34, it won't look any better at 44. Get it done as soon as possible. Quicker you get them on, the quicker they come off.
 

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It will make absolutely no difference at all if you just OWN IT. Embrace it and make no apologies for it, and it could even work in your favor. Now you've got natural peacocking at work. How many 34 year olds have braces? You stand out instantly. Use that attention to your advantage.

Good luck.
 

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I haven't read all the replies, but people saying you won't get action with braces are stupid. I got my braces when I was 23 because my teeth were horrible and they affected my self-image because when I laughed I use to cover up my mouth because my teeth were so horrible.

I got my braces when had a girlfriend, and after the break up I didn't have any problems scoring chicks. In fact, quite a few people were interested about making out with a dude with braces. I even got a current lead that made hints about it.

Trust me, getting those braces are def worth it!. I've endured mine for 3 years(because I had to undergo jaw surgery half way through) and when they come out next month, I'll have the best f*cking smile EVER.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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OP even if it does hinder you to some extent... think of the long term benefits... which will outweigh the temporary setbacks...

as you improving you teeth why no improve you bogy and join a gym as well - it will result in a "new and improved you"!
 

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Ahh... Braces! Oh the memories!

I had braces for 6 years. Got them away when I was 15.

Didn't notice any difficulty getting laid though.
 
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