"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Braces 34 years old!!! IS That big of a deal?

NeedToImprove

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Yep that's right , finally i'm gonna use them, i had crooked teeth my parent's couldn't afford them when i was a kid and so now i talked to my dentist so she said that age my isn't a major issue of concern. I dont know when im gonna advance to get them but possibly july (1500 € + control consults €50 each so all in all it's a total of €2000).

I wonder what the major issues of using them are besides having to use them 1year + . Are they a big turn off with women, will i pass as a geek or something. Has anyone had really bad experiences? The only thing that motivates me is that i will have the possibility to smile to girls more often.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You will get NO action with braces. I have seen myself get NO girls since I got mine fitted and I'm 17 but did amazingly beforehand, so at 34 I'm sure you are screwed in terms of women if you get them.

Here's my advice:

Pay the money, and get them fitted on the back of your teeth, you will thank yourself later, I promise. There are lots of stealth-methods and I STRONGLY suggest you use them instead of the normal ways. If you get normal braces you will find it VERY hard to get attention from females.
 

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aaronlava said:
If you have game y ou'll still get *****.
Your progress will be SEVERELY hindered. Definitely agree with
this guys advice to get clear ones, but even then, I think they might be more noticeable than on the back.
 

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but even if i have to deal with them 1 year + , and get no p**sy the final results will compensate in the future right?
 

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Damn. Braces suck. I had them removed early because I just couldn't stand em any longer.

But, if you need em. You need em. There are plenty of adults who wear braces. Who cares what other people think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what about invisiline?? they are clear.
 

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Look, the only way it will hinder you is if YOU LET IT! I went bald by the age of 20. A lot of guys would assume that they had no chance of getting a hot girl after that, but I do just fine. A lot of guys that lose their hair also lose their CONFIDENCE, which is what kills them with the ladies. So stay confident. I'm sure some girls will even think its "cute". Besides, a quality girl will appreciate that you're trying to improve yourself, no?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jnice48146 said:
Look, the only way it will hinder you is if YOU LET IT! I went bald by the age of 20. A lot of guys would assume that they had no chance of getting a hot girl after that, but I do just fine. A lot of guys that lose their hair also lose their CONFIDENCE, which is what kills them with the ladies. So stay confident. I'm sure some girls will even think its "cute". Besides, a quality girl will appreciate that you're trying to improve yourself, no?
Exactly.

Braces, of course, are not ideal. But they'll only slow you down if you let them. If I meet some awesome girl, and she happens to have braces, I'm not gonna let that stop me from getting her.
 

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I've braces now. I had a choice between getting the normal ones or expensive hidden ones. I got the normal braces and to be honest I don't think anybody in their right mind would have a problem with braces. In fact it shows you're looking after your teeth which is a good sign.
 

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I got braces pretty late in life. I was in my early 20s. Who cares if it looked weird for a year or so. When I got them off, my teeth were perfect. It was the best $1500 bucks I ever spent. Do it. If you think it looks weird at 34, it won't look any better at 44. Get it done as soon as possible. Quicker you get them on, the quicker they come off.
 

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It will make absolutely no difference at all if you just OWN IT. Embrace it and make no apologies for it, and it could even work in your favor. Now you've got natural peacocking at work. How many 34 year olds have braces? You stand out instantly. Use that attention to your advantage.

Good luck.
 

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I haven't read all the replies, but people saying you won't get action with braces are stupid. I got my braces when I was 23 because my teeth were horrible and they affected my self-image because when I laughed I use to cover up my mouth because my teeth were so horrible.

I got my braces when had a girlfriend, and after the break up I didn't have any problems scoring chicks. In fact, quite a few people were interested about making out with a dude with braces. I even got a current lead that made hints about it.

Trust me, getting those braces are def worth it!. I've endured mine for 3 years(because I had to undergo jaw surgery half way through) and when they come out next month, I'll have the best f*cking smile EVER.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OP even if it does hinder you to some extent... think of the long term benefits... which will outweigh the temporary setbacks...

as you improving you teeth why no improve you bogy and join a gym as well - it will result in a "new and improved you"!
 

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Ahh... Braces! Oh the memories!

I had braces for 6 years. Got them away when I was 15.

Didn't notice any difficulty getting laid though.
 
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