"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Braces 34 years old!!! IS That big of a deal?

NeedToImprove

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Yep that's right , finally i'm gonna use them, i had crooked teeth my parent's couldn't afford them when i was a kid and so now i talked to my dentist so she said that age my isn't a major issue of concern. I dont know when im gonna advance to get them but possibly july (1500 € + control consults €50 each so all in all it's a total of €2000).

I wonder what the major issues of using them are besides having to use them 1year + . Are they a big turn off with women, will i pass as a geek or something. Has anyone had really bad experiences? The only thing that motivates me is that i will have the possibility to smile to girls more often.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You will get NO action with braces. I have seen myself get NO girls since I got mine fitted and I'm 17 but did amazingly beforehand, so at 34 I'm sure you are screwed in terms of women if you get them.

Here's my advice:

Pay the money, and get them fitted on the back of your teeth, you will thank yourself later, I promise. There are lots of stealth-methods and I STRONGLY suggest you use them instead of the normal ways. If you get normal braces you will find it VERY hard to get attention from females.
 

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aaronlava said:
If you have game y ou'll still get *****.
Your progress will be SEVERELY hindered. Definitely agree with
this guys advice to get clear ones, but even then, I think they might be more noticeable than on the back.
 

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but even if i have to deal with them 1 year + , and get no p**sy the final results will compensate in the future right?
 

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Damn. Braces suck. I had them removed early because I just couldn't stand em any longer.

But, if you need em. You need em. There are plenty of adults who wear braces. Who cares what other people think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what about invisiline?? they are clear.
 

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Look, the only way it will hinder you is if YOU LET IT! I went bald by the age of 20. A lot of guys would assume that they had no chance of getting a hot girl after that, but I do just fine. A lot of guys that lose their hair also lose their CONFIDENCE, which is what kills them with the ladies. So stay confident. I'm sure some girls will even think its "cute". Besides, a quality girl will appreciate that you're trying to improve yourself, no?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jnice48146 said:
Look, the only way it will hinder you is if YOU LET IT! I went bald by the age of 20. A lot of guys would assume that they had no chance of getting a hot girl after that, but I do just fine. A lot of guys that lose their hair also lose their CONFIDENCE, which is what kills them with the ladies. So stay confident. I'm sure some girls will even think its "cute". Besides, a quality girl will appreciate that you're trying to improve yourself, no?
Exactly.

Braces, of course, are not ideal. But they'll only slow you down if you let them. If I meet some awesome girl, and she happens to have braces, I'm not gonna let that stop me from getting her.
 

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I've braces now. I had a choice between getting the normal ones or expensive hidden ones. I got the normal braces and to be honest I don't think anybody in their right mind would have a problem with braces. In fact it shows you're looking after your teeth which is a good sign.
 

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I got braces pretty late in life. I was in my early 20s. Who cares if it looked weird for a year or so. When I got them off, my teeth were perfect. It was the best $1500 bucks I ever spent. Do it. If you think it looks weird at 34, it won't look any better at 44. Get it done as soon as possible. Quicker you get them on, the quicker they come off.
 

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It will make absolutely no difference at all if you just OWN IT. Embrace it and make no apologies for it, and it could even work in your favor. Now you've got natural peacocking at work. How many 34 year olds have braces? You stand out instantly. Use that attention to your advantage.

Good luck.
 

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I haven't read all the replies, but people saying you won't get action with braces are stupid. I got my braces when I was 23 because my teeth were horrible and they affected my self-image because when I laughed I use to cover up my mouth because my teeth were so horrible.

I got my braces when had a girlfriend, and after the break up I didn't have any problems scoring chicks. In fact, quite a few people were interested about making out with a dude with braces. I even got a current lead that made hints about it.

Trust me, getting those braces are def worth it!. I've endured mine for 3 years(because I had to undergo jaw surgery half way through) and when they come out next month, I'll have the best f*cking smile EVER.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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OP even if it does hinder you to some extent... think of the long term benefits... which will outweigh the temporary setbacks...

as you improving you teeth why no improve you bogy and join a gym as well - it will result in a "new and improved you"!
 

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Ahh... Braces! Oh the memories!

I had braces for 6 years. Got them away when I was 15.

Didn't notice any difficulty getting laid though.
 
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