BPD finally came crawling back.

[Infern0]

Its been 9 months NC almost a year since i seen her.

I have been training seriously in that time and got great results, plus heaps if self improvement and growth, feeling good boyos.

other day i ran into her best friend (hb8) who couldnt stop complimenting me and squeezed my arms lol (this one is the hot slutty girl who my ex worships) its funny because this girl used to pretty much snob me when i was out of shape depressed dude with the bpd, but now she was all "omg you look so different, good for you, wow" and smiling and hard eye contact.

Anyway I knew at that point the clock was ticking.

Anyway opened my emails and there it was, the email from the ex.

Opened it and just saw wall of text starting with:

"i know you hate me and want nothing to do with me but"

DELETE

No thanks.

Tldr: they ALWAYS come back

 

[Roober]

Its been 9 months NC almost a year since i seen her.

I have been training seriously in that time and got great results, plus heaps if self improvement and growth, feeling good boyos.

other day i ran into her best friend (hb8) who couldnt stop complimenting me and squeezed my arms lol (this one is the hot slutty girl who my ex worships) its funny because this girl used to pretty much snob me when i was out of shape depressed dude with the bpd, but now she was all "omg you look so different, good for you, wow" and smiling and hard eye contact.

Anyway I knew at that point the clock was ticking.

Anyway opened my emails and there it was, the email from the ex.

Opened it and just saw wall of text starting with:

"i know you hate me and want nothing to do with me but"

DELETE

No thanks.

Tldr: they ALWAYS come back

Ahh.... the sweet satisfaction of victory...

 

[El Payaso]

Yeah, don't even read it. That's how they suck you back in. Slvts...

 

[Infern0]

Ahh.... the sweet satisfaction of victory...

Yeah i was thinking that earlier. warred with this girl for 3 years and i finally "won"

But, meh whatever, i'm clued up enough to know now that life has already beaten her, i'm beyond hate or anything at this stage, i pity her. But i don't want any part of her either.

 

[dude99]

Its been 9 months NC almost a year since i seen her.

I have been training seriously in that time and got great results, plus heaps if self improvement and growth, feeling good boyos.

other day i ran into her best friend (hb8) who couldnt stop complimenting me and squeezed my arms lol (this one is the hot slutty girl who my ex worships) its funny because this girl used to pretty much snob me when i was out of shape depressed dude with the bpd, but now she was all "omg you look so different, good for you, wow" and smiling and hard eye contact.

Anyway I knew at that point the clock was ticking.

Anyway opened my emails and there it was, the email from the ex.

Opened it and just saw wall of text starting with:

"i know you hate me and want nothing to do with me but"

DELETE

No thanks.

Tldr: they ALWAYS come back

Handled perfectly.

Nope.

Delete.

Gone.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Handled perfectly.

Nope.

Delete.

Gone.

You could've made her a permenant pump and dump where the framed conversation is focused around the next meeting for sex and nothing outside of this.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Im glad you handled it this way. I thought you were going to tell us you lined up a meeting with her and were looking to smash. The feeling is very tempting, going back to an old ex, better, confident you will hold the power.

However its often not worth it. You made a good decision. And I know the feeling is amazing.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You should have read it so you can tell us what she said and we can all have a good laugh

After a year out I would never go back to an ex.. at that point even the thought of sexing her disgusts me.

Got it. Well definitely don't "degrade" yourself behind some sex...

 

[dude99]

You could've made her a permenant pump and dump where the framed conversation is focused around the next meeting for sex and nothing outside of this.

He could have tried for the pump and dump but being a bpd you could never get rid of her after the dump.

He would be making a new thread called " how do i get rid of bpd ex after the pump and dump?"

 

[wifehunter]

They are so many hot, rotten girls out there! Why waste time with only one?

Garbage!

 

[Infern0]

He could have tried for the pump and dump but being a bpd you could never get rid of her after the dump.

He would be making a new thread called " how do i get rid of bpd ex after the pump and dump?"

Or "is there any way i can make it work with bpd ex"

never go back to the drink

 

[btownbuck2012]

Its been 9 months NC almost a year since i seen her.

I have been training seriously in that time and got great results, plus heaps if self improvement and growth, feeling good boyos.

other day i ran into her best friend (hb8) who couldnt stop complimenting me and squeezed my arms lol (this one is the hot slutty girl who my ex worships) its funny because this girl used to pretty much snob me when i was out of shape depressed dude with the bpd, but now she was all "omg you look so different, good for you, wow" and smiling and hard eye contact.

Anyway I knew at that point the clock was ticking.

Anyway opened my emails and there it was, the email from the ex.

Opened it and just saw wall of text starting with:

"i know you hate me and want nothing to do with me but"

DELETE

No thanks.

Tldr: they ALWAYS come back

This is the same chick who had the guy kill himself over her, correct?

 

[Infern0]

This is the same chick who had the guy kill himself over her, correct?

Yup thats the one

 

[btownbuck2012]

Yup thats the one

I give you a-lot of credit for being able to just delete it. I always have this urge in me to get even with people like this by saying something mean or cruel to them, but I guess with women like this that does no good. Just gives em a feeling of being important to you still.

 

[Infern0]

I give you a-lot of credit for being able to just delete it. I always have this urge in me to get even with people like this by saying something mean or cruel to them, but I guess with women like this that does no good. Just gives em a feeling of being important to you still.

There's a lot of things i could have done.

Thrown some abuse

Pumped and dumped

Probably could have hooked up with her best friend

But, what would that make me?

just as bad as her.

 

[ChangePages]

So is she still with the other guy she left you for?

 

[Infern0]

So is she still with the other guy she left you for?

No, he's dead.

100% srs

 

[ChangePages]

No, he's dead.

100% srs

Whoa wait a minute so you mean to tell me the rebound killed himself?

 

[Infern0]

Whoa wait a minute so you mean to tell me the rebound killed himself?

Yup, sad but true, overdosed after she did to him what she did to me.

 

[Polysix]

Well done Infern0. I remember your old thread and I can relate it´s really a matter of life and death.