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Bud. I straight up dated a girl diagnosed bpd. It started with me just using her as a plate. But I was naive at the time. Next thing you know I was in full blown crazy town. Legit. The relationship lasted one month. It ended one night when she flipped out because she was jealous of another girl, grabbed a knife, and started slitting her wrists. I tried grabbing the knife and she stuck it through my foot. Then started grabbing my Mach fusion razor blades throwing them in her mouth and chewing them.

I learned a lesson from this experience.
 

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Bud. I straight up dated a girl diagnosed bpd. It started with me just using her as a plate. But I was naive at the time. Next thing you know I was in full blown crazy town. Legit. The relationship lasted one month. It ended one night when she flipped out because she was jealous of another girl, grabbed a knife, and started slitting her wrists. I tried grabbing the knife and she stuck it through my foot. Then started grabbing my Mach fusion razor blades throwing them in her mouth and chewing them.

I learned a lesson from this experience.
And on this night, she tried calling the police on me as I tried to get her out of my house. The police came and she tried getting them to charge me with assault. The police ended up charging her wi th assault with a weapon because of the stabbed foot.
 

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So she had a no contact order on her. And even still would send me weird messages like “why are all the lights on in your house”. (All the lights were on in my house)
 

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So everyone wants to play this “it doesn’t exist game”. There are indicators that a girl has bpd // red flags. Specific to the disorder. They’re good to know.
 

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Anyway I had her blocked on everything then she started sending me emails that she was going to kill herself and shyt. So I screen shotted them and just sent them to her mom.
 

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Bud. I straight up dated a girl diagnosed bpd. It started with me just using her as a plate. But I was naive at the time. Next thing you know I was in full blown crazy town. Legit. The relationship lasted one month. It ended one night when she flipped out because she was jealous of another girl, grabbed a knife, and started slitting her wrists. I tried grabbing the knife and she stuck it through my foot. Then started grabbing my Mach fusion razor blades throwing them in her mouth and chewing them.

I learned a lesson from this experience.
So she went off in relationship mode. Lol. What does that tell you?
Well that cutting tactic obviously worked with her mom and dad. Did it work with you?
We aren’t hearing the context of the situation either. No woman has ever done that with me. I’ve had way more than my share of women. Even married a woman. At least four kids that I know of. All of them adore me and my steadfast strength.

19 foreign countries as well and have only used condoms with one woman in my life.

Women are for sex. Raising babies when it applies.
 

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So she went off in relationship mode. Lol. What does that tell you?
Well that cutting tactic obviously worked with her mom and dad. Did it work with you?
We aren’t hearing the context of the situation either. No woman has ever done that with me. I’ve had way more than my share of women. Even married a woman. At least four kids that I know of. All of them adore me and my steadfast strength.

19 foreign countries as well and have only used condoms with one woman in my life.

Women are for sex. Raising babies when it applies.
Yeah she went off in relationship mode. After all this happened I’d spoken to her mom. This girl legit spent time in the mental institution. But you wouldn’t have known it at the beginning. Until her switch was flipped.

Here’s the context of the situation: A girl was texting my phone. That’s about it. And before this happened I didn’t even know what BPD was
 

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So everyone wants to play this “it doesn’t exist game”. There are indicators that a girl has bpd // red flags. Specific to the disorder. They’re good to know.
I'll assure you Bpd doesn't exist. One anything on the topic was only recently added to the Dj bible. Originally there was no mention of Bpd.It's not something that was discovered and the "game" has existed for thousands of years. If you want true sight on what this is you should look a little deeper. Turning to modern psychology is not an outlet or answer.
 

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I'll assure you Bpd doesn't exist. One anything on the topic was only recently added to the Dj bible. Originally there was no mention of Bpd.It's not something that was discovered and the "game" has existed for thousands of years. If you want true sight on what this is you should look a little deeper. Turning to modern psychology is not an outlet or answer.
It’s not something that’s “discovered”. It’s a classification of a group of behaviours. Therefore it does exist.
 

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Yeah she went off in relationship mode.

But you wouldn’t have known it at the beginning. Until her switch was flipped.

And before this happened I didn’t even know what BPD was
Yes. The closeness of the relationship starts her process.

Yep. There’s symptoms and indicators, but until her full blown crazy pops out you don’t know the full extent of her illness.

Yes. Most men that get involved with one are unaware personality disorders exist or ignore them.
 

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Bpd is a cop out for guys who are having trouble with women, they have something to blame it on, also, bpd is not that damn common where every girl who doesnt fall into ya frame has it lol, sucks for the people who actually struggle with it.

As far as the OP goes, move on
That's what I thought when I was your age. Then I met one.
 

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That's what I thought when I was your age. Then I met one.
You dont know what you met, your not a mental health professional are you? You cant diagnose someone with something because you read some traits on the internet and said to yourself "hey that's her" doesnt work that way, unless she was diagnosed by a professional then your just assuming.

Kinda like how people say "oh, he has dead eyes hes a sociopath" lol.

Guys just running around diagnosing women with BPD when in reality there just exhibiting normal women behavior. Not talking about you specifically just talking in general.

BPD only affects 2% of the population so how the hell are all these women you guys are dating mentally ill lol
 
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Bdp only affects 2% of the population so how the hell are all these women you guys are dating mentally ill lol
Lol. They are everywhere!!!! Oh my god, beware of these dangerous women.
It’s their own damn fault. Most likely the women don’t fit their fantasy land or their mama.
 

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Fell for her did ya? Tsk. Tsk.
You make a lot of assumptions with your one size fits all mentality. You probably wouldn’t know a bpd because you probably have a pd :lol:. Having sex with so many women but never using protection? That’s disgusting bro.
 

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Lol. They are everywhere!!!! Oh my god, beware of these dangerous women.
It’s their own damn fault. Most likely the women don’t fit their fantasy land or their mama.
When experienced men talk about their real life encounters with the reality of mentally ill females, denial of that problem from a less experienced perspective doesn't make it disappear …
 

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When experienced men talk about their real life encounters with the reality of mentally ill females, denial of that problem from a less experienced perspective doesn't make it disappear …
Point is, a bunch of guys constantly calling every girl who does some weird sh!t bpd is just as weird.

Your experience doesnt make you a mental health professional.

Stop diagnosing these poor women lol and reading traits on Google doesn't give anyone the right to diagnose someone either.
 

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Fell for her did ya? Tsk. Tsk.
I did - she phucked up my career path a bit out of revenge (messed up with my head to the incredible extent when I had very important things to do in my life considering my career).

I'm still trying to recover my frame to the level I had when I was 30 just w/o narcissm bonus (now I know how the s.hit tastes, I've had to work hard last two years to pull myself from loser status into good prospect again).

You dont know what you met, your not a mental health professional are you? You cant diagnose someone with something because you read some traits on the internet and said to yourself "hey that's her" doesnt work that way, unless she was diagnosed by a professional then your just assuming.

Kinda like how people say "oh, he has dead eyes hes a sociopath" lol.

Guys just running around diagnosing women with BPD when in reality there just exhibiting normal women behavior. Not talking about you specifically just talking in general.

BPD only affects 2% of the population so how the hell are all these women you guys are dating mentally ill lol
You don't know me and you are 8 years younger than I am. You have no idea how relationship with BPD changes you. 2 years with one and your intuition regarding every human behaviour - eye contact, smell of sweat, body language, tone of voice, what someone is doing, how is she/he looking - everything - even spacing between the words spoken or the particular words used in the sentence when someone speaks with you or the choice of topic which only seems to be out of context - suddenly makes logical sense and you notice it all ASAP. That's what constant fighting and BPD ups and downs in relations with her/his partner does to ppl emotions and intuition.

BPD waif type (because that was the type of my former GF) target blue-pill narcisstic white knights (former mark at your service). Imagine woman that is HB8, smart and virgin at the age of 31 - that was her. I've described her phucked up behaviour here couple years ago and I don't want to go back - I still miss her sometimes and I hate her alltogether and it has been 2 years. It's still somehow in me and I cannot shake it down.

Women like that do exist but what you can know - when I was 27 or so I was in phuck-dump mode pumping my narcissm and thinking ppl around are dumber than me (sounds like you btw).
 
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