*Paging Dr. Gio* "Bring 400 cc of anti-mood swing, fast!" :nervous:Originally posted by penkitten
wait.. are u calling me a bad mother?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
*Paging Dr. Gio* "Bring 400 cc of anti-mood swing, fast!" :nervous:Originally posted by penkitten
wait.. are u calling me a bad mother?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Originally posted by Jake-inator
Wow i love how women take out their insecurities on guys.
Then the guy gets on his knees and says "i'm sorry, but i don't know what i'm appologizing for."
Either way, it sounds like the boy needs a daddy - someone to hold down the law.
Also Gio if this is your gf, I would consider running... VERY FAST!!!
She seems rather unstable.
no, i want sedatives, the children have been soooo bad lately.Originally posted by Eternal
*Paging Dr. Gio* "Bring 400 cc of anti-mood swing, fast!" :nervous:
Not your fault? MAYBE you should have exercised better judgment when choosing your impregnator. MAYBE you should have picked a guy who was a little more, you know, family-oriented. Not some bad boy douche bag who had no redeeming qualities other than making your gina tingle.penkitten said:its not my fault he didnt spend any time with his dad.
what am i suppose to do ?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yeah, being mutilated does nothing to a persons psyche. There are definitely still mentally intact as a human being. :crazy:noobolgy said:Here’s the difference, to me, between boys and girls: Boys fvck things up; Girls are fvcked up. That’s the difference. Boys just do damage to your house that you can measure in dollars, like a hurricane. Girls, like, leave scars in your psyche that you find later, like a genocide or an atrocity…
That’s the difference between boys and girls. And it becomes the difference between men and women, really. A man will, like, steal your car or burn your house down or beat the sh!t out of you, but a woman will ruin your fvckin’ life.
Do you see the difference? Like, a man will cut your arm off and throw it in a river, but he’ll leave you as a human being intact. He won’t fvck with who you are as a person, on the inside. Women are nonviolent, but they will sh!t inside of your heart.”
Little boys fight each other, Little girls have psychological warfare with each other, or against unsuspecting males. I know this is an old thread, but still.
http://tumblr.austinkleon.com/post/2985093886
"You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Bible_Belt again."Bible_Belt said:MAYBE you should have noticed the age of this thread. The last I heard, that kid is now a young adult and doing fine.
This thread is a perfect example of how mouth-breathing morons like you have turned a how-to-get girls site into a support group for the no pvssy getting attitudes that brought you here in the first place.
I'm sorry, I forgot that this was a site about getting girls. For a second, I thought that it was site about raising kids as a single mom. On the subject of getting girls, how's that pet land whale of yours doing?Bible_Belt said:This thread is a perfect example of how mouth-breathing morons like you have turned a how-to-get girls site into a support group for the no pvssy getting attitudes that brought you here in the first place.
Bitter troll is bitter.Bokanovsky said:I'm sorry, I forgot that this was a site about getting girls. For a second, I thought that it was site about raising kids as a single mom. On the subject of getting girls, how's that pet land whale of yours doing?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Speaking of boys and fighting, I would beat the fvck out of you if I ever saw you in person and you said that to my face. And I think you know that, which makes you all that much more pathetic.Bokanovsky said:how's that pet land whale of yours doing?
You could but I could beat u up. easy.Bible_Belt said:Speaking of boys and fighting, I would beat the fvck out of you if I ever saw you in person and you said that to my face. And I think you know that, which makes you all that much more pathetic.
Where are you located? What do you weigh? Keep running your b!tch-ass mouth and maybe I can find a promoter to make it all nice and legal.
Wow, a keyboard jockey internet tough guy. How scary.Bible_Belt said:Speaking of boys and fighting, I would beat the fvck out of you if I ever saw you in person and you said that to my face. And I think you know that, which makes you all that much more pathetic.
Where are you located? What do you weigh? Keep running your b!tch-ass mouth and maybe I can find a promoter to make it all nice and legal.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Seems on par with internet flamers who would likely not insult anyone in real life. In the real world men know that insulting another mans woman or his female family members, can get a guy hurt fast.Bokanovsky said:Wow, a keyboard jockey internet tough guy. How scary.
Gaylan, arnt u the internet flamer?Jaylan said:Seems on par with internet flamers who would likely not insult anyone in real life. In the real world men know that insulting another mans woman or his female family members, can get a guy hurt fast. Gaylan, arn't you an internet flamer?
I guess interwebz fills people with a false bit of courage.
Says the guy who uses racial slurs and wishes rape upon other forum members. Lol @ the hypocrisy of your post.noobolgy said:Gaylan, arnt u the internet flamer?
I don't hang out in the ghetto/trailer park, so the chances of me running into you or Bible Belt in real life would be pretty slim. But I'd have no problem saying what I think about you to your face if you expressed the same opinions you express here to me in real life. And you wouldn't do a damn thing about it either...except maybe run to your girl friends for a shoulder to cry on.Jaylan said:All I know is that guys like you and Bokanovsky would never insult me or BibleBelt to our faces. But I guess certain guys need the internet to let off steam since they dont have the courage to do so in the real world.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.