Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Originally posted by penkitten
wait.. are u calling me a bad mother?
*Paging Dr. Gio* "Bring 400 cc of anti-mood swing, fast!" :nervous:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Jake-inator
Wow i love how women take out their insecurities on guys.
Then the guy gets on his knees and says "i'm sorry, but i don't know what i'm appologizing for."


Either way, it sounds like the boy needs a daddy - someone to hold down the law.


Also Gio if this is your gf, I would consider running... VERY FAST!!!
She seems rather unstable.

stfu!
 

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Originally posted by Eternal
*Paging Dr. Gio* "Bring 400 cc of anti-mood swing, fast!" :nervous:
no, i want sedatives, the children have been soooo bad lately.
 

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Here’s the difference, to me, between boys and girls: Boys fvck things up; Girls are fvcked up. That’s the difference. Boys just do damage to your house that you can measure in dollars, like a hurricane. Girls, like, leave scars in your psyche that you find later, like a genocide or an atrocity…

That’s the difference between boys and girls. And it becomes the difference between men and women, really. A man will, like, steal your car or burn your house down or beat the sh!t out of you, but a woman will ruin your fvckin’ life.

Do you see the difference? Like, a man will cut your arm off and throw it in a river, but he’ll leave you as a human being intact. He won’t fvck with who you are as a person, on the inside. Women are nonviolent, but they will sh!t inside of your heart.”

Little boys fight each other, Little girls have psychological warfare with each other, or against unsuspecting males. I know this is an old thread, but still.

http://tumblr.austinkleon.com/post/2985093886
 

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penkitten said:
its not my fault he didnt spend any time with his dad.
what am i suppose to do ?
Not your fault? MAYBE you should have exercised better judgment when choosing your impregnator. MAYBE you should have picked a guy who was a little more, you know, family-oriented. Not some bad boy douche bag who had no redeeming qualities other than making your gina tingle.

This thread is a perfect example of why single moms are the scourge of society. First they have kids with guys who have no interest in being fathers. Then they try raise boys without any father figures in their lives and fail miserably (let's face it, women have no clue how to raise boys). Then, these fatherless boys become criminals, delinquents and unmotivated basement dwellers. And then women complain that there are no "real men" left.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MAYBE you should have exercised better judgment when choosing your impregnator.

MAYBE you should have noticed the age of this thread. The last I heard, that kid is now a young adult and doing fine.

This thread is a perfect example of why single moms are the scourge of society.


This thread is a perfect example of how mouth-breathing morons like you have turned a how-to-get girls site into a support group for the no pvssy getting attitudes that brought you here in the first place.
 

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noobolgy said:
Here’s the difference, to me, between boys and girls: Boys fvck things up; Girls are fvcked up. That’s the difference. Boys just do damage to your house that you can measure in dollars, like a hurricane. Girls, like, leave scars in your psyche that you find later, like a genocide or an atrocity…

That’s the difference between boys and girls. And it becomes the difference between men and women, really. A man will, like, steal your car or burn your house down or beat the sh!t out of you, but a woman will ruin your fvckin’ life.

Do you see the difference? Like, a man will cut your arm off and throw it in a river, but he’ll leave you as a human being intact. He won’t fvck with who you are as a person, on the inside. Women are nonviolent, but they will sh!t inside of your heart.”

Little boys fight each other, Little girls have psychological warfare with each other, or against unsuspecting males. I know this is an old thread, but still.

http://tumblr.austinkleon.com/post/2985093886
Yeah, being mutilated does nothing to a persons psyche. There are definitely still mentally intact as a human being. :crazy:
Bible_Belt said:
MAYBE you should have noticed the age of this thread. The last I heard, that kid is now a young adult and doing fine.

This thread is a perfect example of how mouth-breathing morons like you have turned a how-to-get girls site into a support group for the no pvssy getting attitudes that brought you here in the first place.
"You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Bible_Belt again."
 

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Bible_Belt said:
This thread is a perfect example of how mouth-breathing morons like you have turned a how-to-get girls site into a support group for the no pvssy getting attitudes that brought you here in the first place.
I'm sorry, I forgot that this was a site about getting girls. For a second, I thought that it was site about raising kids as a single mom. On the subject of getting girls, how's that pet land whale of yours doing?
 

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I'm sorry, I forgot that this was a site about getting girls. For a second, I thought that it was site about raising kids as a single mom. On the subject of getting girls, how's that pet land whale of yours doing?
Bitter troll is bitter.

Obvious troll is obvious.

PS - Theres an Anything Else forum for a reason. You dont dictate what topics can be posted here. Calm down.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I once had a fight over a piece of prime rib. It wasn't even good but it was the principle. I won and ate the prime rob but then threw up because it sucked.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
how's that pet land whale of yours doing?
Speaking of boys and fighting, I would beat the fvck out of you if I ever saw you in person and you said that to my face. And I think you know that, which makes you all that much more pathetic.

Where are you located? What do you weigh? Keep running your b!tch-ass mouth and maybe I can find a promoter to make it all nice and legal.
 

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Speaking of boys and fighting, I would beat the fvck out of you if I ever saw you in person and you said that to my face. And I think you know that, which makes you all that much more pathetic.

Where are you located? What do you weigh? Keep running your b!tch-ass mouth and maybe I can find a promoter to make it all nice and legal.
You could but I could beat u up. easy.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Speaking of boys and fighting, I would beat the fvck out of you if I ever saw you in person and you said that to my face. And I think you know that, which makes you all that much more pathetic.

Where are you located? What do you weigh? Keep running your b!tch-ass mouth and maybe I can find a promoter to make it all nice and legal.
Wow, a keyboard jockey internet tough guy. How scary.
 

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that kid would be 21 now. i'm interested to see if he's in jail or if he's in college
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Whoa. I just came across this thread, it reminded me of that bit from louis ck's show and i thought about how it was funny, and related. Was not expecting to see all this drama.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
Wow, a keyboard jockey internet tough guy. How scary.
Seems on par with internet flamers who would likely not insult anyone in real life. In the real world men know that insulting another mans woman or his female family members, can get a guy hurt fast.

I guess interwebz fills people with a false bit of courage.
 

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Jaylan said:
Seems on par with internet flamers who would likely not insult anyone in real life. In the real world men know that insulting another mans woman or his female family members, can get a guy hurt fast. Gaylan, arn't you an internet flamer?

I guess interwebz fills people with a false bit of courage.
Gaylan, arnt u the internet flamer?
 

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Gaylan, arnt u the internet flamer?
Says the guy who uses racial slurs and wishes rape upon other forum members. Lol @ the hypocrisy of your post.

All I know is that guys like you and Bokanovsky would never insult me or BibleBelt to our faces. But I guess certain guys need the internet to let off steam since they dont have the courage to do so in the real world.
 

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All I know is that guys like you and Bokanovsky would never insult me or BibleBelt to our faces. But I guess certain guys need the internet to let off steam since they dont have the courage to do so in the real world.
I don't hang out in the ghetto/trailer park, so the chances of me running into you or Bible Belt in real life would be pretty slim. But I'd have no problem saying what I think about you to your face if you expressed the same opinions you express here to me in real life. And you wouldn't do a damn thing about it either...except maybe run to your girl friends for a shoulder to cry on.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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