"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Boyfriend?

deer

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There's this girl who gives me some definite IOIs and flirts with me quite a bit, but she has a boyfriend who she seems to care about, I think. What can I do to get her to forget about her boyfriend and hook up with me instead?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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(JJ)

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well. there's 3,301,112,087 girls in the world.

one that'll drop him for you, will do the same to you as soon as a bigger, better deal comes along.

therefore, forget about her. there's still 3,301,112,086 Left in the world.
 

mrRuckus

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They will all drop you for the bigger, better deal.
 

DJVladdy

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Like my Natural friend likes to say: "boyfriend is not a wall - he can move."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cassanova_Child

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hire a hitman. its not hard... just go up to your local ghetto and hire some whackjob with no future to pull it off for 15 bucks of a BJ......... ;)


note, if you take me seriously, you deserve to be shot! dont bother, as other ppl have sad, shell drop you at the slightest opportunity.
 

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Hey, any girl will dump you if something better comes along. lol Unless of course they are one of those obsessive people that don't want to look bad at all. Then they will try to get you to dump them.

Long story short, you are the guy that is better than the boyfriend. You are the one who has come along and if you can make this girl happier than her boyfriend can, why punish the girl for this dude's sake?
 

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smoothtalker72 said:
do you really want a girl who is willing to drop her boyfriend just like that?
+1. Other than that, I don't encourage other DJ's to snipe away their girls - it's not right. That's the #1 man rule. Only exception is if the guy treats the girl poorly. If he treats her right, let them be. Plenty of fish in the sea, move on.
 
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