Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Boyfriend?

deer

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There's this girl who gives me some definite IOIs and flirts with me quite a bit, but she has a boyfriend who she seems to care about, I think. What can I do to get her to forget about her boyfriend and hook up with me instead?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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(JJ)

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well. there's 3,301,112,087 girls in the world.

one that'll drop him for you, will do the same to you as soon as a bigger, better deal comes along.

therefore, forget about her. there's still 3,301,112,086 Left in the world.
 

mrRuckus

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They will all drop you for the bigger, better deal.
 

DJVladdy

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Like my Natural friend likes to say: "boyfriend is not a wall - he can move."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cassanova_Child

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hire a hitman. its not hard... just go up to your local ghetto and hire some whackjob with no future to pull it off for 15 bucks of a BJ......... ;)


note, if you take me seriously, you deserve to be shot! dont bother, as other ppl have sad, shell drop you at the slightest opportunity.
 

T-Roy

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Hey, any girl will dump you if something better comes along. lol Unless of course they are one of those obsessive people that don't want to look bad at all. Then they will try to get you to dump them.

Long story short, you are the guy that is better than the boyfriend. You are the one who has come along and if you can make this girl happier than her boyfriend can, why punish the girl for this dude's sake?
 

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smoothtalker72 said:
do you really want a girl who is willing to drop her boyfriend just like that?
+1. Other than that, I don't encourage other DJ's to snipe away their girls - it's not right. That's the #1 man rule. Only exception is if the guy treats the girl poorly. If he treats her right, let them be. Plenty of fish in the sea, move on.
 
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