"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi everyone

So ive been to the gym on and off for a good while now, i look like ive been lifting for a while but nothing crazy, its been almost a year off, ive gained fat, lost a bit of muscle. I also wanted to learn boxing for a while so i did and i also got back to the gym and i have split up them into a day of boxing and another for the gym with a day of rest in the week, since i want to lose the fat i gained and i want to restore my shape. So what tips do you guys have and what should i expect.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eat enough carbs to cover the boxing workout . It will eat muscles if you don't eat enough .
 

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Fighters typically lift weights with low weight and high reps, sets of 15-20. It is the opposite of lifting for mass.
 

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Im looking for decent mass with low body fat, boxers bodies are scrawny with abs, definitely not what i want
It's going to mostly be your food intake. LIke if your boxing workout takes 1000 calories, and you are lean enough already ( you can see abs and veins ), then have 800-1000 calories vs when your not boxing in mostly carbs. It will keep the workout from eating up your muscle and give you enough fuel.

you can have a descent amount of muscle as a boxer/kick boxer ( look at Michael Jai White ) but you have to eat. Also your going to have to lift if you want to keep muscle on, because as you see if you don't your body will start shrinking anything it doesn't need. Because that boxing workout is a cardio ass kicker, and the body don't want no muscle, extra fat or extra weight it doesn't need.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Poonstra

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I've been thaiboxing for 16 years (twice a weej) and only started lifting weights (also twice a week) 1,5 years ago.
I try and keep a day in between sessions. Monday lifting, Wednesday thaiboxing, Thursday lifting and Saturday thaiboxing. As a general tip, if your shirts start to smell like amonia after a workout you're burning muscle. Avoid that. Just make sure you eat before a boxing session.
 

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If your shirts start to smell like amonia after a workout you're burning muscle.
^This. Take note of it.

When I was in my early teens to late teens training karate it didn't matter much. It's when I hit 24 whilst working as a part time karate instructor that I noticed weakness in speed, endurance and hits that got me to eat right before training.
 
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