"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi everyone

So ive been to the gym on and off for a good while now, i look like ive been lifting for a while but nothing crazy, its been almost a year off, ive gained fat, lost a bit of muscle. I also wanted to learn boxing for a while so i did and i also got back to the gym and i have split up them into a day of boxing and another for the gym with a day of rest in the week, since i want to lose the fat i gained and i want to restore my shape. So what tips do you guys have and what should i expect.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Eat enough carbs to cover the boxing workout . It will eat muscles if you don't eat enough .
 

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Fighters typically lift weights with low weight and high reps, sets of 15-20. It is the opposite of lifting for mass.
 

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Im looking for decent mass with low body fat, boxers bodies are scrawny with abs, definitely not what i want
It's going to mostly be your food intake. LIke if your boxing workout takes 1000 calories, and you are lean enough already ( you can see abs and veins ), then have 800-1000 calories vs when your not boxing in mostly carbs. It will keep the workout from eating up your muscle and give you enough fuel.

you can have a descent amount of muscle as a boxer/kick boxer ( look at Michael Jai White ) but you have to eat. Also your going to have to lift if you want to keep muscle on, because as you see if you don't your body will start shrinking anything it doesn't need. Because that boxing workout is a cardio ass kicker, and the body don't want no muscle, extra fat or extra weight it doesn't need.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Poonstra

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I've been thaiboxing for 16 years (twice a weej) and only started lifting weights (also twice a week) 1,5 years ago.
I try and keep a day in between sessions. Monday lifting, Wednesday thaiboxing, Thursday lifting and Saturday thaiboxing. As a general tip, if your shirts start to smell like amonia after a workout you're burning muscle. Avoid that. Just make sure you eat before a boxing session.
 

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If your shirts start to smell like amonia after a workout you're burning muscle.
^This. Take note of it.

When I was in my early teens to late teens training karate it didn't matter much. It's when I hit 24 whilst working as a part time karate instructor that I noticed weakness in speed, endurance and hits that got me to eat right before training.
 
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