I met this girl a year back and got her number and didnt ever call it but still had the number. Well it turned out that a year later we would be going to the same school together and so I got to know her better. But it turns out her younger sister is really cute looking too. So the question, is it a bad thing to go for the younger sister?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Both sisters cute???
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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It is wrong, but DJ's are without morals.
I wouldn't do it, but Im self-righteous and always have this awful habit of not wanting to hurt people.
I wouldn't do it, but Im self-righteous and always have this awful habit of not wanting to hurt people.
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I have asked the older sister out a couple times but she seems to busy, today I asked her what she was doing and she told me she had a date. But the other sister is a available because I texted her and said we should hang out sometime, and she replyed back "sounds like a plan". So the younger one seems interested so im just confused whether it would be okay since me and the older sister never have dated or started anything together.
I have asked the older sister out a couple times but she seems to busy, today I asked her what she was doing and she told me she had a date. But the other sister is a available because I texted her and said we should hang out sometime, and she replyed back "sounds like a plan". So the younger one seems interested so im just confused whether it would be okay since me and the older sister never have dated or started anything together.
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I was in the same predicament some years back,just make friends with the older sister and date the younger one.
S1NN3R
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How is it wrong? It's not like he's banging them both. If nothing happened previously with the older sister, nothing is in the pipeline to happen soon, and especially if she's out on other dates, then is nothing at all wrong with going after the younger sister.SELF-MASTERY said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Why do you care what we think about such a trivial situation?makaio8 said:
If you were a confident and well adjusted person you would not need to ask.
One of the most attractive traits a man can have in a woman’s eyes is decisiveness, remember that.
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It doesn't sit well with me and Im steadfast in my beliefs.S1NN3R said:
S1NN3R
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Ok, I can understand that being your belief, but it just not sitting well with you is no reason to tell others that it's wrong and that they would be amoral for doing it.SELF-MASTERY said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I was in a situation where I thought both sisters were cute and I was attracted to both of them. In the end, I just ended up going for the one I believed I was more attracted to, and as my feelings for her grew, my feelings for her sister diminished back to a more normal "platonic friends" mode.
My advice is... unless you're just looking for some play action in the sack, don't pick out the one u wanna go for based on the looks, but by the personality that is more interesting.
My advice is... unless you're just looking for some play action in the sack, don't pick out the one u wanna go for based on the looks, but by the personality that is more interesting.
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