I met this girl a year back and got her number and didnt ever call it but still had the number. Well it turned out that a year later we would be going to the same school together and so I got to know her better. But it turns out her younger sister is really cute looking too. So the question, is it a bad thing to go for the younger sister?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Both sisters cute???
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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It is wrong, but DJ's are without morals.
I wouldn't do it, but Im self-righteous and always have this awful habit of not wanting to hurt people.
I wouldn't do it, but Im self-righteous and always have this awful habit of not wanting to hurt people.
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I have asked the older sister out a couple times but she seems to busy, today I asked her what she was doing and she told me she had a date. But the other sister is a available because I texted her and said we should hang out sometime, and she replyed back "sounds like a plan". So the younger one seems interested so im just confused whether it would be okay since me and the older sister never have dated or started anything together.
I have asked the older sister out a couple times but she seems to busy, today I asked her what she was doing and she told me she had a date. But the other sister is a available because I texted her and said we should hang out sometime, and she replyed back "sounds like a plan". So the younger one seems interested so im just confused whether it would be okay since me and the older sister never have dated or started anything together.
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I was in the same predicament some years back,just make friends with the older sister and date the younger one.
S1NN3R
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How is it wrong? It's not like he's banging them both. If nothing happened previously with the older sister, nothing is in the pipeline to happen soon, and especially if she's out on other dates, then is nothing at all wrong with going after the younger sister.SELF-MASTERY said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Why do you care what we think about such a trivial situation?makaio8 said:
If you were a confident and well adjusted person you would not need to ask.
One of the most attractive traits a man can have in a woman’s eyes is decisiveness, remember that.
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It doesn't sit well with me and Im steadfast in my beliefs.S1NN3R said:
S1NN3R
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Ok, I can understand that being your belief, but it just not sitting well with you is no reason to tell others that it's wrong and that they would be amoral for doing it.SELF-MASTERY said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I was in a situation where I thought both sisters were cute and I was attracted to both of them. In the end, I just ended up going for the one I believed I was more attracted to, and as my feelings for her grew, my feelings for her sister diminished back to a more normal "platonic friends" mode.
My advice is... unless you're just looking for some play action in the sack, don't pick out the one u wanna go for based on the looks, but by the personality that is more interesting.
My advice is... unless you're just looking for some play action in the sack, don't pick out the one u wanna go for based on the looks, but by the personality that is more interesting.
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