I met this girl a year back and got her number and didnt ever call it but still had the number. Well it turned out that a year later we would be going to the same school together and so I got to know her better. But it turns out her younger sister is really cute looking too. So the question, is it a bad thing to go for the younger sister?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Both sisters cute???
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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It is wrong, but DJ's are without morals.
I wouldn't do it, but Im self-righteous and always have this awful habit of not wanting to hurt people.
I wouldn't do it, but Im self-righteous and always have this awful habit of not wanting to hurt people.
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I have asked the older sister out a couple times but she seems to busy, today I asked her what she was doing and she told me she had a date. But the other sister is a available because I texted her and said we should hang out sometime, and she replyed back "sounds like a plan". So the younger one seems interested so im just confused whether it would be okay since me and the older sister never have dated or started anything together.
I have asked the older sister out a couple times but she seems to busy, today I asked her what she was doing and she told me she had a date. But the other sister is a available because I texted her and said we should hang out sometime, and she replyed back "sounds like a plan". So the younger one seems interested so im just confused whether it would be okay since me and the older sister never have dated or started anything together.
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I was in the same predicament some years back,just make friends with the older sister and date the younger one.
S1NN3R
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How is it wrong? It's not like he's banging them both. If nothing happened previously with the older sister, nothing is in the pipeline to happen soon, and especially if she's out on other dates, then is nothing at all wrong with going after the younger sister.SELF-MASTERY said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Why do you care what we think about such a trivial situation?makaio8 said:
If you were a confident and well adjusted person you would not need to ask.
One of the most attractive traits a man can have in a woman’s eyes is decisiveness, remember that.
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It doesn't sit well with me and Im steadfast in my beliefs.S1NN3R said:
S1NN3R
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Ok, I can understand that being your belief, but it just not sitting well with you is no reason to tell others that it's wrong and that they would be amoral for doing it.SELF-MASTERY said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I was in a situation where I thought both sisters were cute and I was attracted to both of them. In the end, I just ended up going for the one I believed I was more attracted to, and as my feelings for her grew, my feelings for her sister diminished back to a more normal "platonic friends" mode.
My advice is... unless you're just looking for some play action in the sack, don't pick out the one u wanna go for based on the looks, but by the personality that is more interesting.
My advice is... unless you're just looking for some play action in the sack, don't pick out the one u wanna go for based on the looks, but by the personality that is more interesting.
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