I met this girl a year back and got her number and didnt ever call it but still had the number. Well it turned out that a year later we would be going to the same school together and so I got to know her better. But it turns out her younger sister is really cute looking too. So the question, is it a bad thing to go for the younger sister?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Both sisters cute???
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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It is wrong, but DJ's are without morals.
I wouldn't do it, but Im self-righteous and always have this awful habit of not wanting to hurt people.
I wouldn't do it, but Im self-righteous and always have this awful habit of not wanting to hurt people.
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I have asked the older sister out a couple times but she seems to busy, today I asked her what she was doing and she told me she had a date. But the other sister is a available because I texted her and said we should hang out sometime, and she replyed back "sounds like a plan". So the younger one seems interested so im just confused whether it would be okay since me and the older sister never have dated or started anything together.
I have asked the older sister out a couple times but she seems to busy, today I asked her what she was doing and she told me she had a date. But the other sister is a available because I texted her and said we should hang out sometime, and she replyed back "sounds like a plan". So the younger one seems interested so im just confused whether it would be okay since me and the older sister never have dated or started anything together.
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I was in the same predicament some years back,just make friends with the older sister and date the younger one.
S1NN3R
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How is it wrong? It's not like he's banging them both. If nothing happened previously with the older sister, nothing is in the pipeline to happen soon, and especially if she's out on other dates, then is nothing at all wrong with going after the younger sister.SELF-MASTERY said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Why do you care what we think about such a trivial situation?makaio8 said:
If you were a confident and well adjusted person you would not need to ask.
One of the most attractive traits a man can have in a woman’s eyes is decisiveness, remember that.
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It doesn't sit well with me and Im steadfast in my beliefs.S1NN3R said:
S1NN3R
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Ok, I can understand that being your belief, but it just not sitting well with you is no reason to tell others that it's wrong and that they would be amoral for doing it.SELF-MASTERY said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I was in a situation where I thought both sisters were cute and I was attracted to both of them. In the end, I just ended up going for the one I believed I was more attracted to, and as my feelings for her grew, my feelings for her sister diminished back to a more normal "platonic friends" mode.
My advice is... unless you're just looking for some play action in the sack, don't pick out the one u wanna go for based on the looks, but by the personality that is more interesting.
My advice is... unless you're just looking for some play action in the sack, don't pick out the one u wanna go for based on the looks, but by the personality that is more interesting.
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