Ever have a chick call you up with nothing to say? Literally sitting on the other end and saying absolutely nothing. I sit there with an awkward silence for 20-30 seconds with no exchange. That's a long time on the phone with no words. I even call her out on it and she ignores what I said and begins to talk about something else. Who the hell has time for this crap?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Boring phone calls...
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Masculinity
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Is this a girlfriend? A plate? A girl you just met?
This is way too little information to try to give you useful advice. Give us more details and contact with which to work. What's the situation here?
This is way too little information to try to give you useful advice. Give us more details and contact with which to work. What's the situation here?
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
A chick called me once I was fapping. After 20 seconds it turned to one of those convos were shed breathe and sigh on the phone and tell me how cold and lonely she is.
I fapped through the entire phone call.
I fapped through the entire phone call.
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
lol!!!old_skoolr said:
I made an entire relationship out of a girl who essentially had NOTHING to say. My sister, social animal that she is, used to tell me that getting her to open up was like pulling teeth. After we broke up, she (my sister) asked me in pure wonderment "what the hell did you guys talk about anyway?" I told her the truth, that it was about 10 percent dialogue, 10 percent silence, 80 percent me running my mouth until I ran out of energy or ideas, usually both - pure monologue. Yep, I put up with that in exchange for the best pvssy of my life.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
This happened to me when I was 14. It was painful and I'd have to pretend my friends were going for breakfast and I had to go (this was at boarding school).
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sylvester the cat
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lol.old_skoolr said:
She is just a friend I hang out with from time to time. I was aiming more at a vent thread than anything. She called me 3 times and I finally answered after the third call thinking she must need something. Nope. Haha. Just awkward silence. She has nothing to say. It wasn't the first time she has done that which is why I was reluctant to answer the call.Masculinity said: