Ever have a chick call you up with nothing to say? Literally sitting on the other end and saying absolutely nothing. I sit there with an awkward silence for 20-30 seconds with no exchange. That's a long time on the phone with no words. I even call her out on it and she ignores what I said and begins to talk about something else. Who the hell has time for this crap?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Boring phone calls...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Masculinity
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Is this a girlfriend? A plate? A girl you just met?
This is way too little information to try to give you useful advice. Give us more details and contact with which to work. What's the situation here?
This is way too little information to try to give you useful advice. Give us more details and contact with which to work. What's the situation here?
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
A chick called me once I was fapping. After 20 seconds it turned to one of those convos were shed breathe and sigh on the phone and tell me how cold and lonely she is.
I fapped through the entire phone call.
I fapped through the entire phone call.
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
lol!!!old_skoolr said:
I made an entire relationship out of a girl who essentially had NOTHING to say. My sister, social animal that she is, used to tell me that getting her to open up was like pulling teeth. After we broke up, she (my sister) asked me in pure wonderment "what the hell did you guys talk about anyway?" I told her the truth, that it was about 10 percent dialogue, 10 percent silence, 80 percent me running my mouth until I ran out of energy or ideas, usually both - pure monologue. Yep, I put up with that in exchange for the best pvssy of my life.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
This happened to me when I was 14. It was painful and I'd have to pretend my friends were going for breakfast and I had to go (this was at boarding school).
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
sylvester the cat
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lol.old_skoolr said:
She is just a friend I hang out with from time to time. I was aiming more at a vent thread than anything. She called me 3 times and I finally answered after the third call thinking she must need something. Nope. Haha. Just awkward silence. She has nothing to say. It wasn't the first time she has done that which is why I was reluctant to answer the call.Masculinity said: