Ever have a chick call you up with nothing to say? Literally sitting on the other end and saying absolutely nothing. I sit there with an awkward silence for 20-30 seconds with no exchange. That's a long time on the phone with no words. I even call her out on it and she ignores what I said and begins to talk about something else. Who the hell has time for this crap?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Boring phone calls...
- Thread starter SomeGirls
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Masculinity
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Is this a girlfriend? A plate? A girl you just met?
This is way too little information to try to give you useful advice. Give us more details and contact with which to work. What's the situation here?
This is way too little information to try to give you useful advice. Give us more details and contact with which to work. What's the situation here?
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
A chick called me once I was fapping. After 20 seconds it turned to one of those convos were shed breathe and sigh on the phone and tell me how cold and lonely she is.
I fapped through the entire phone call.
I fapped through the entire phone call.
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
lol!!!old_skoolr said:
I made an entire relationship out of a girl who essentially had NOTHING to say. My sister, social animal that she is, used to tell me that getting her to open up was like pulling teeth. After we broke up, she (my sister) asked me in pure wonderment "what the hell did you guys talk about anyway?" I told her the truth, that it was about 10 percent dialogue, 10 percent silence, 80 percent me running my mouth until I ran out of energy or ideas, usually both - pure monologue. Yep, I put up with that in exchange for the best pvssy of my life.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
This happened to me when I was 14. It was painful and I'd have to pretend my friends were going for breakfast and I had to go (this was at boarding school).
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
sylvester the cat
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lol.old_skoolr said:
She is just a friend I hang out with from time to time. I was aiming more at a vent thread than anything. She called me 3 times and I finally answered after the third call thinking she must need something. Nope. Haha. Just awkward silence. She has nothing to say. It wasn't the first time she has done that which is why I was reluctant to answer the call.Masculinity said: