“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have been hitting up this one girl for awhile now, i've already got her # and stuff we have hung out and stuff. then it droped off at the beginning of this year.

so 3 weeks in to the school year i started talking her up more but every time i talk to her I get the simple 1 word awnsers which i usualy reply w/ C&F il get a laugh sometimes but she just wont talk more. im thinking of just nexting her, but gonna keep tryin my luck for now. so to the point of my question.

Any tips for getting a girl to come out of her shell and be moire talkitive. ive tryed stuff in the bible but allways get a one word awners or short sentance.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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quit asking her questions. If you want her to talk, talk to her about life/her intrests/music. Pick one. If she still does 1 word answers move on.
 
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Yeah man, you have to MAKE her not boring.
The only thing about a girl that isn't boring is her pu-ssy.
Wy do you think they like exciting, non-boring guys? Because they themselves are fu-cking bored out of their minds!!
Good luck with that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It may help you to plan out the conversation before hand and give a list of open-ended questions to fall back on. Just don't do trigger questions like how are you? how was your day? how are you feeling? do you see ok?
 
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Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
Yeah man, you have to MAKE her not boring.
The only thing about a girl that isn't boring is her pu-ssy.
Wy do you think they like exciting, non-boring guys? Because they themselves are fu-cking bored out of their minds!!
Good luck with that.
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You have to make nothing.

We've all met people with whom conversation just goes on and it's great. No matter what, no matter when, you're going to strike an interesting conversation with them. And then there are people similar to the OP's. These people are just not worth our time. Honestly, it's just not fair to you who wants to strike up a great conversation, friendship or relationship to have to do 90% of the work.

If someone isn't meeting you halfway, don't even think twice about walking away.
 
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i usualy reply w/ C&F il get a laugh sometimes but she just wont talk more. im thinking of just nexting her, but gonna keep tryin my luck for now.

This girl gives you one word responses, but you are going to keep trying your luck?

1. She's not interested, period. Don't waist anymore time with her, move on. Hell, if you ignore her, you might actually get the response you want.

2. If you keep trying, you will come across very desperate and needy. Want to know what will happen next? She'll start complaining to her friends about you. Once that starts, it's over because they will start looking at you the same way...Next thing you know, you'll be known as the desparate guy.

3. Never, ever put so much emphasis on any one girl.
 
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Originally posted by LikRetsam
You have to make nothing.

We've all met people with whom conversation just goes on and it's great. No matter what, no matter when, you're going to strike an interesting conversation with them. And then there are people similar to the OP's. These people are just not worth our time. Honestly, it's just not fair to you who wants to strike up a great conversation, friendship or relationship to have to do 90% of the work.

If someone isn't meeting you halfway, don't even think twice about walking away.
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Basically all I meant was that your job as a guy is to keep things interesting, to lead her in convos and stuff. Women need us to keep their lives non-boring..... that's the plain truth. I've struck decent convos with women, and tell me I am just thinking negative if you want, but I have yet to find a girl who is as interesting and exciting as myself..... I'm not being egotistical or anything, but "hanging out with friends, talking on the cell phone, partying, etc." is NOT my idea of interesting or exciting. Their conversation skills reflect that.
 
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I have yet to find a girl who is as interesting and exciting as myself

haha, this is great. Can I use that line? Classic!
I may have to use it as part of my signature.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yea whyshy is right...dont ask ?'s that can be answerred with a simple yes or no....ask something that has to be answered with depth and interest
 
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