Boring Girls...

[KaminoSS]

I have been hitting up this one girl for awhile now, i've already got her # and stuff we have hung out and stuff. then it droped off at the beginning of this year.

so 3 weeks in to the school year i started talking her up more but every time i talk to her I get the simple 1 word awnsers which i usualy reply w/ C&F il get a laugh sometimes but she just wont talk more. im thinking of just nexting her, but gonna keep tryin my luck for now. so to the point of my question.

Any tips for getting a girl to come out of her shell and be moire talkitive. ive tryed stuff in the bible but allways get a one word awners or short sentance.

 

[The Master Disaster]

quit asking her questions. If you want her to talk, talk to her about life/her intrests/music. Pick one. If she still does 1 word answers move on.

 

[Anomalous]

Ask open-ended questions!

 

[Brian20o2]

Originally posted by whyshy
Ask open-ended questions!

i love it when people on here are such geniuses and acctually know something

 

[pimpfromdayone]

Yeah man, you have to MAKE her not boring.
The only thing about a girl that isn't boring is her pu-ssy.
Wy do you think they like exciting, non-boring guys? Because they themselves are fu-cking bored out of their minds!!
Good luck with that.

 

[The Master Disaster]

It may help you to plan out the conversation before hand and give a list of open-ended questions to fall back on. Just don't do trigger questions like how are you? how was your day? how are you feeling? do you see ok?

 

[LikRetsam]

Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
Yeah man, you have to MAKE her not boring.
The only thing about a girl that isn't boring is her pu-ssy.
Wy do you think they like exciting, non-boring guys? Because they themselves are fu-cking bored out of their minds!!
Good luck with that.

You have to make nothing.

We've all met people with whom conversation just goes on and it's great. No matter what, no matter when, you're going to strike an interesting conversation with them. And then there are people similar to the OP's. These people are just not worth our time. Honestly, it's just not fair to you who wants to strike up a great conversation, friendship or relationship to have to do 90% of the work.

If someone isn't meeting you halfway, don't even think twice about walking away.

 

[biker_gixxer]

i usualy reply w/ C&F il get a laugh sometimes but she just wont talk more. im thinking of just nexting her, but gonna keep tryin my luck for now.

This girl gives you one word responses, but you are going to keep trying your luck?

1. She's not interested, period. Don't waist anymore time with her, move on. Hell, if you ignore her, you might actually get the response you want.

2. If you keep trying, you will come across very desperate and needy. Want to know what will happen next? She'll start complaining to her friends about you. Once that starts, it's over because they will start looking at you the same way...Next thing you know, you'll be known as the desparate guy.

3. Never, ever put so much emphasis on any one girl.

 

[pimpfromdayone]

Originally posted by LikRetsam
You have to make nothing.

We've all met people with whom conversation just goes on and it's great. No matter what, no matter when, you're going to strike an interesting conversation with them. And then there are people similar to the OP's. These people are just not worth our time. Honestly, it's just not fair to you who wants to strike up a great conversation, friendship or relationship to have to do 90% of the work.

If someone isn't meeting you halfway, don't even think twice about walking away.

Basically all I meant was that your job as a guy is to keep things interesting, to lead her in convos and stuff. Women need us to keep their lives non-boring..... that's the plain truth. I've struck decent convos with women, and tell me I am just thinking negative if you want, but I have yet to find a girl who is as interesting and exciting as myself..... I'm not being egotistical or anything, but "hanging out with friends, talking on the cell phone, partying, etc." is NOT my idea of interesting or exciting. Their conversation skills reflect that.

 

[biker_gixxer]

I have yet to find a girl who is as interesting and exciting as myself

haha, this is great. Can I use that line? Classic!
I may have to use it as part of my signature.

 

[S-lemond]

yea whyshy is right...dont ask ?'s that can be answerred with a simple yes or no....ask something that has to be answered with depth and interest

 

[pimpfromdayone]

Feel free