"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bored of sex

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Been in a relationship with this girl for nearly a year. She's great fun and makes me laugh and we really see eye to eye. Normally girls bore me but not this one. Trouble is I am bored of sex. When we go to bed she is always horny and up for it and I just want to chill and think about things. Most times I just go through the motions and it's over in a few minutes, other times I just feign tiredness or whatever. Anyone else had this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Id love to know what percentage of married couples BOTH enjoy their sex lives..
 
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DaddyLongShanks said:
I think it means your testosterone is low, I'd go get tested.
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Ok. When we first met we used to fk 3 times a night but lately I'm just not interested. How do you go about getting tested?
 
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you can do it online, by ordering in a kit and sending in a sample or you can go into a center which tests. When I stayed in Houston I was easily able to google for dozens and dozens of docs which did testosterone replacement therepy. They would be able to find out your blood levels.

Also sometime stress will mess you up, so if your mind is focused on all these other things, and some are stressful it can pull your attention from yourself... Sex is healthy and balances out stress. So always keep it part of your life.

I'd allow her to give you head to allow you to relax, and then penetrate her if she needs it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DaddyLongShanks said:
you can do it online, by ordering in a kit and sending in a sample or you can go into a center which tests. When I stayed in Houston I was easily able to google for dozens and dozens of docs which did testosterone replacement therepy. They would be able to find out your blood levels.

Also sometime stress will mess you up, so if your mind is focused on all these other things, and some are stressful it can pull your attention from yourself... Sex is healthy and balances out stress. So always keep it part of your life.

I'd allow her to give you head to allow you to relax, and then penetrate her if she needs it.
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Ok. Thanks.
 
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