"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bored of sex

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Been in a relationship with this girl for nearly a year. She's great fun and makes me laugh and we really see eye to eye. Normally girls bore me but not this one. Trouble is I am bored of sex. When we go to bed she is always horny and up for it and I just want to chill and think about things. Most times I just go through the motions and it's over in a few minutes, other times I just feign tiredness or whatever. Anyone else had this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Id love to know what percentage of married couples BOTH enjoy their sex lives..
 

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DaddyLongShanks said:
I think it means your testosterone is low, I'd go get tested.
Ok. When we first met we used to fk 3 times a night but lately I'm just not interested. How do you go about getting tested?
 
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you can do it online, by ordering in a kit and sending in a sample or you can go into a center which tests. When I stayed in Houston I was easily able to google for dozens and dozens of docs which did testosterone replacement therepy. They would be able to find out your blood levels.

Also sometime stress will mess you up, so if your mind is focused on all these other things, and some are stressful it can pull your attention from yourself... Sex is healthy and balances out stress. So always keep it part of your life.

I'd allow her to give you head to allow you to relax, and then penetrate her if she needs it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DaddyLongShanks said:
you can do it online, by ordering in a kit and sending in a sample or you can go into a center which tests. When I stayed in Houston I was easily able to google for dozens and dozens of docs which did testosterone replacement therepy. They would be able to find out your blood levels.

Also sometime stress will mess you up, so if your mind is focused on all these other things, and some are stressful it can pull your attention from yourself... Sex is healthy and balances out stress. So always keep it part of your life.

I'd allow her to give you head to allow you to relax, and then penetrate her if she needs it.
Ok. Thanks.
 
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