"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bored of sex

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Been in a relationship with this girl for nearly a year. She's great fun and makes me laugh and we really see eye to eye. Normally girls bore me but not this one. Trouble is I am bored of sex. When we go to bed she is always horny and up for it and I just want to chill and think about things. Most times I just go through the motions and it's over in a few minutes, other times I just feign tiredness or whatever. Anyone else had this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Id love to know what percentage of married couples BOTH enjoy their sex lives..
 
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DaddyLongShanks said:
I think it means your testosterone is low, I'd go get tested.
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Ok. When we first met we used to fk 3 times a night but lately I'm just not interested. How do you go about getting tested?
 
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you can do it online, by ordering in a kit and sending in a sample or you can go into a center which tests. When I stayed in Houston I was easily able to google for dozens and dozens of docs which did testosterone replacement therepy. They would be able to find out your blood levels.

Also sometime stress will mess you up, so if your mind is focused on all these other things, and some are stressful it can pull your attention from yourself... Sex is healthy and balances out stress. So always keep it part of your life.

I'd allow her to give you head to allow you to relax, and then penetrate her if she needs it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DaddyLongShanks said:
you can do it online, by ordering in a kit and sending in a sample or you can go into a center which tests. When I stayed in Houston I was easily able to google for dozens and dozens of docs which did testosterone replacement therepy. They would be able to find out your blood levels.

Also sometime stress will mess you up, so if your mind is focused on all these other things, and some are stressful it can pull your attention from yourself... Sex is healthy and balances out stress. So always keep it part of your life.

I'd allow her to give you head to allow you to relax, and then penetrate her if she needs it.
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Ok. Thanks.
 
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