"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bootcamp week#1 oct 2 2006 monday.

yrock181

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ok, guys i hope you are ready to tackle the first week. Our task this week is to do 50 hi's and 50 eye contact with people. you don't necessarily have to do them simultaneously but i would recommend you should. this will hopefully give you a spike of confidence that would be needed for the on coming week afterwards. this might feel awkward in the beginning but trust me it gets easier after you do about 20. so guys this start tommorrow 2nd of october.

you should read week #1 from the original bc: herehttp://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf for pdf
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.doc microsoft word.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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no we don't have to pay for anything because its up to you to do it.
 

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so far i have done about 21/50 hi's i always forget to count ec.
 

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so far i have completed all 50/50 hi's and ec. also on the side i have been approaching women. so far in the last two days i have approached about 6 girls and gotten away with 2 numbers. ill write my approach down later hoping for feedback
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nice to see bootcamp reports.
 
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