"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bootcamp week#1 oct 2 2006 monday.

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ok, guys i hope you are ready to tackle the first week. Our task this week is to do 50 hi's and 50 eye contact with people. you don't necessarily have to do them simultaneously but i would recommend you should. this will hopefully give you a spike of confidence that would be needed for the on coming week afterwards. this might feel awkward in the beginning but trust me it gets easier after you do about 20. so guys this start tommorrow 2nd of october.

you should read week #1 from the original bc: herehttp://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf for pdf
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.doc microsoft word.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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no we don't have to pay for anything because its up to you to do it.
 

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so far i have done about 21/50 hi's i always forget to count ec.
 

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so far i have completed all 50/50 hi's and ec. also on the side i have been approaching women. so far in the last two days i have approached about 6 girls and gotten away with 2 numbers. ill write my approach down later hoping for feedback
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nice to see bootcamp reports.
 
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