"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bootcamp week#1 oct 2 2006 monday.

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ok, guys i hope you are ready to tackle the first week. Our task this week is to do 50 hi's and 50 eye contact with people. you don't necessarily have to do them simultaneously but i would recommend you should. this will hopefully give you a spike of confidence that would be needed for the on coming week afterwards. this might feel awkward in the beginning but trust me it gets easier after you do about 20. so guys this start tommorrow 2nd of october.

you should read week #1 from the original bc: herehttp://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf for pdf
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.doc microsoft word.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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no we don't have to pay for anything because its up to you to do it.
 

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so far i have done about 21/50 hi's i always forget to count ec.
 

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so far i have completed all 50/50 hi's and ec. also on the side i have been approaching women. so far in the last two days i have approached about 6 girls and gotten away with 2 numbers. ill write my approach down later hoping for feedback
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nice to see bootcamp reports.
 
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