"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Boot Camp Thread (Opening May 2nd)
- Thread starter One on One
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Elevenbravo
Don Juan
Also why not have multiple partners if there is an uneven number.
Nickell511`
Don Juan
JT47319
Master Don Juan
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I use trillian so I'm on all of them.
Run down on today
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Forgot about the bootcamp. But I happened to have 2 eye contacts and one hello, which ended up a conversation. But tomorrow I shall do more because I know that's I'm doing it now.
CIAO.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
prometheus
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Gonna start today.. but got a story to share....
Went out the other nite... read some confidence builder stuff off here before I went, just to see what happens. Anyway, went out, was having fun, and got approached by a HB7. Started convo about tattoos, kino started right away. I was showing her mine, shes showing me hers type stuff. Told her to come outside the club with me, cause we couldnt really talk to much in there. She says that my confidence was a big turn on...lol. Kissed closed, exchanged numbers and going back out with her in couple of days.
All about attitude and confidence.... then get the kino going and everything else will follow.
CGE333
Senior Don Juan
Getting a late start but I got 3 Hi's out so far. Everyone that is doing this make sure you complete it. The last time I started- did not get all the way to the end, but one of the #'s I got is still my F-Buddy to this day (4 months later)...
Lost
Master Don Juan
.....felt sorta worried when i had arrived to skool.
strange cuz ive done this plenty of times. ... but today i totally wussed out. I tried to realise nothin bad would happen.. and when i thought about it i sorta realised it.. but i still was afraid to do it for some reason.
ahh whatsup with that?
i even went to barnes n noble afterwards..... but i was still scared to do it.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Sunday, I got about 9-10 hi's
Today is not over and I am going out to eat up in a little town.
Does people I am acquainted with but don't really talk (i.e. never or almost never) to at school count because I said "hi" to them and have a little convo with them today?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
TheCollector
Don Juan
One on One
Master Don Juan
Didn't have time to out Sunday, but managed 3 His today. They weren't too solid though...lady at CVS, neighbor lady I don't see much, and dude at GNC. I had a short convo with the guy at GNC and I usually don't talk to cashiers much so that was a positive.
I'll give more of an effort tomorrow.
Nickell511`
Don Juan
CONGRATS on the first day everyone!
today i got about 10 eyecontacts and 6 hi's....not bad but i could of done better (choked a few times)
matter of fact i think we all could of done better today! So tomorrow i challenge everyone to get 5 more hi's + ec's than you did today
Ok off to bed exams tomorrow :/
Lost
Master Don Juan
Day2
Still hesitant..... i tried to focus like i used to on the past. Like Zone in on one person ... but when i would look at them, i wouldnt hold it.
wtf/......
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
another 10 hi's
yesterday
today 4 and I am going out now
total 24
One on One
Master Don Juan
Ugh, only 1 Hi today. Eye contact is no problem for me, although everybody else seems to avoid it. My total is 4 so this is a really slow start, but I will get 50. It's been hard for me to find people around. The malls seem to be empty when I go during the afternoon. I work tomorrow so I will try to get a bunch of His after work tomorrow.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.