"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

BOOT camp Starts Thursday

frivolousz21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2004
Messages
3,151
Reaction score
16
Age
44
Location
belleville, il
sign in here.

so we know who is all on board.

we will do this by the origional plan that was set the first time.

im excited!

alright guys...

post ur aim or yahoo name in here.

so we can form a a seperate buddy list with each others Screen names. that will be easier for 1 on 1 talking.

we can use this thread to post the results we have had.

remember a few things.

this isnt something you want to do. THIS IS SOMETHING YOU HAVE TO DO.

YOU HAVE TO!

and remember you are not alone. we might not live together or by each other but all of us wants the same thing. And all of us can achieve this. We might not be alpha males in 8 weeks but we wont be AFC's either. we will be DJ or much closer.

please dont lie about what happens..we will all get rejected more than we'd like.

but just think of the first number and the first kiss and the first sex.

then think of the ultimate goal. your confidence and your life will be better.

good luck gentleman..i say that tentively you dont need luck!
 
Last edited:

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Maverick001

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2004
Messages
324
Reaction score
1
Location
SOL III/Terra
Ditto.

No flaming b/c this is my 1st post, unless that's customary razzin'.

A more formal and comprehensive intro. will follow...
 

frivolousz21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2004
Messages
3,151
Reaction score
16
Age
44
Location
belleville, il
go to the DJ bible guys and read the boot camp.

read all the way to the end of week 1..all of it

all of the articles

when ur done

read them again.

before thursday
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

wonderboy040587

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 23, 2004
Messages
30
Reaction score
0
Location
canada
so are we supposed to read the whole thing before thursday or the first part of it?

edit: oh never mind i just read frivolousz21 post... it says end of week 1 ok got it and already read it lol
 
Last edited:

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

duke007

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 12, 2003
Messages
765
Reaction score
0
Age
42
Location
Melbourne, Australia
I'm in. Need to break my slump in form

my msn is [email protected]

and frivolous, I just cleaned out my pm inbox so send away
 

frivolousz21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2004
Messages
3,151
Reaction score
16
Age
44
Location
belleville, il
alright Im going out the rest of night to catch the 2nd half of monday night football at a friends.

man you guys got me excited...

I am going to come up with anything else we need than can help us on this.

good work ahead gentlemen
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Lost In Translation

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 30, 2004
Messages
1,385
Reaction score
11
Location
Australia
i only been on the forums for a few weeks so i need to do this.

ok i live in Australia and there is a time zone difference between here and the USA.

i think we are a day ahead of you time wise. so your thursday will be wednesday ?

i am downloading the DJ Bible to read what i have to do....

can we get like an exact list at the start and see how we went so people reading our posts who haven't done the boot camp understand our exact goals each day.

i am excited :D




Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Don Juanabbe
What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice?

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “
 

Unforsaken

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2004
Messages
91
Reaction score
0
Age
41
Hey, I am interested in joining. This would be my first time, so I got no idea how this goes like. I am up for a challenge, though. Any prize for first place?..if not, I would be happy to help other people along the way.
 

Kidd

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2004
Messages
331
Reaction score
2
In
 

Lost In Translation

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 30, 2004
Messages
1,385
Reaction score
11
Location
Australia
yeah a little competition of sorts would be a cool incentive

i know people could lie in their posts but if we had a gentlemans agreement to be truthful and encourage each other then the only person they would be cheating is themselves.

i can't see a reason to lie. we are in boot camp ! we are going to make mistakes !

maybe just run a poll each day and see who did the best on that particular day ?



Lost In Translation :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Top