"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sign in here.

so we know who is all on board.

we will do this by the origional plan that was set the first time.

im excited!

alright guys...

post ur aim or yahoo name in here.

so we can form a a seperate buddy list with each others Screen names. that will be easier for 1 on 1 talking.

we can use this thread to post the results we have had.

remember a few things.

this isnt something you want to do. THIS IS SOMETHING YOU HAVE TO DO.

YOU HAVE TO!

and remember you are not alone. we might not live together or by each other but all of us wants the same thing. And all of us can achieve this. We might not be alpha males in 8 weeks but we wont be AFC's either. we will be DJ or much closer.

please dont lie about what happens..we will all get rejected more than we'd like.

but just think of the first number and the first kiss and the first sex.

then think of the ultimate goal. your confidence and your life will be better.

good luck gentleman..i say that tentively you dont need luck!
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ditto.

No flaming b/c this is my 1st post, unless that's customary razzin'.

A more formal and comprehensive intro. will follow...
 
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go to the DJ bible guys and read the boot camp.

read all the way to the end of week 1..all of it

all of the articles

when ur done

read them again.

before thursday
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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so are we supposed to read the whole thing before thursday or the first part of it?

edit: oh never mind i just read frivolousz21 post... it says end of week 1 ok got it and already read it lol
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm in. Need to break my slump in form

my msn is [email protected]

and frivolous, I just cleaned out my pm inbox so send away
 
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alright Im going out the rest of night to catch the 2nd half of monday night football at a friends.

man you guys got me excited...

I am going to come up with anything else we need than can help us on this.

good work ahead gentlemen
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i only been on the forums for a few weeks so i need to do this.

ok i live in Australia and there is a time zone difference between here and the USA.

i think we are a day ahead of you time wise. so your thursday will be wednesday ?

i am downloading the DJ Bible to read what i have to do....

can we get like an exact list at the start and see how we went so people reading our posts who haven't done the boot camp understand our exact goals each day.

i am excited :D




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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Don Juanabbe
What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice?

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “
 
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Hey, I am interested in joining. This would be my first time, so I got no idea how this goes like. I am up for a challenge, though. Any prize for first place?..if not, I would be happy to help other people along the way.
 
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yeah a little competition of sorts would be a cool incentive

i know people could lie in their posts but if we had a gentlemans agreement to be truthful and encourage each other then the only person they would be cheating is themselves.

i can't see a reason to lie. we are in boot camp ! we are going to make mistakes !

maybe just run a poll each day and see who did the best on that particular day ?



Lost In Translation :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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