"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Boot camp should be a real boot camp

everywomanshero

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I personally think the DJ bootcamp should be transformed into a real bootcamp. Where a drill sarge (no pun) rolls you out of bed at 6 am and makes you eat 3 cans of SPAM if you didn't approach at least 15 chics the night before.

The "sarge" makes you jog around a busy park singing some song about how you have no shame for wanting bootie infront of little old ladies and hot tennis players (females you fag :) while you're wearing something totally embaressing.

Next, you go over the playbook for the evenings activities, get your hair restyled, purchase (with the help of someone reasonably fashionable) your peacocking wear, and are shown pictures of Ross Jefferies to assure you that there really are geekier guys trying this stuff.

Finally, you are forced to stay out until 4 am attempting to sarge while some goofy old guy screams out plays to you. O, and by the way, all of this is filmed and posted online for the entire world to see :)?

So who wants to sign up first???
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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100% Agreement

That's the spirit EWH. I totally agree with you. The only thing that can make bootcamp successful is complete humility and a complete willingness to be humiliated over and over again. There's just no way around it. It sounds like at some point you have the motivation and ability to become a coach yourself.

I'm going to a formal bootcamp in mid October. I'll let you know how it goes. I'll keep attending bootcamps until I get good at this. BTW, I'm posting on the mature man's thread. Technically, a young 'un like yourself isn't allowed to post there, but shoot me a PM if you have any suggestions.

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Inc. ©

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Usually the bootcamp goes like this:

50 people sign up

80% of them go out and say hi to a bunch of old people and think they are pimping.

50% of them manage to ask an HB for directions or something.

Only 1 or 2 is left when you actually have to talk to women!

I swear - nobody seems to make it past week 2. It's a waste of time. Just do cold approaches if you want to improve!
 

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ATTENTION!

RIGHT FACE!

FORWARD MARCH!


Left Left Left Left right o left right left.
Your left keep it in step.
Your left keep it in step.

when I get to heaven, st. peter gonna say.
How many beautiful women.

Did you fvck today!
haha...

sorry couldn't help it!
 

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Would have been a great idea for a reality show :)

However finding the guys willing to make a fool out of themselves on national tv while chatting up girls with hidden cameras, when they already fear looking into a womans eyes, will be hard :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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We could arrange a bootcamp at our local Lairs. That might actually be kinda cool.

*shrug*

~Vibe~
 

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Originally posted by Inc. ©
Usually the bootcamp goes like this:

50 people sign up

80% of them go out and say hi to a bunch of old people and think they are pimping.

50% of them manage to ask an HB for directions or something.

Only 1 or 2 is left when you actually have to talk to women!

I swear - nobody seems to make it past week 2. It's a waste of time. Just do cold approaches if you want to improve!
From personal experience, around 50% of the people who sign up make it to week2 and only few guys make it as far as week4 which is still more than "I swear - nobody seems to make it past week 2."

Also while it may look like BC is a waste of time, it worked very well for me. Now that I'm out of the STR that I got from the BC, I'm considering doing a new BC in November.
 
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