"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Boot camp should be a real boot camp

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I personally think the DJ bootcamp should be transformed into a real bootcamp. Where a drill sarge (no pun) rolls you out of bed at 6 am and makes you eat 3 cans of SPAM if you didn't approach at least 15 chics the night before.

The "sarge" makes you jog around a busy park singing some song about how you have no shame for wanting bootie infront of little old ladies and hot tennis players (females you fag :) while you're wearing something totally embaressing.

Next, you go over the playbook for the evenings activities, get your hair restyled, purchase (with the help of someone reasonably fashionable) your peacocking wear, and are shown pictures of Ross Jefferies to assure you that there really are geekier guys trying this stuff.

Finally, you are forced to stay out until 4 am attempting to sarge while some goofy old guy screams out plays to you. O, and by the way, all of this is filmed and posted online for the entire world to see :)?

So who wants to sign up first???
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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100% Agreement

That's the spirit EWH. I totally agree with you. The only thing that can make bootcamp successful is complete humility and a complete willingness to be humiliated over and over again. There's just no way around it. It sounds like at some point you have the motivation and ability to become a coach yourself.

I'm going to a formal bootcamp in mid October. I'll let you know how it goes. I'll keep attending bootcamps until I get good at this. BTW, I'm posting on the mature man's thread. Technically, a young 'un like yourself isn't allowed to post there, but shoot me a PM if you have any suggestions.

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Usually the bootcamp goes like this:

50 people sign up

80% of them go out and say hi to a bunch of old people and think they are pimping.

50% of them manage to ask an HB for directions or something.

Only 1 or 2 is left when you actually have to talk to women!

I swear - nobody seems to make it past week 2. It's a waste of time. Just do cold approaches if you want to improve!
 

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ATTENTION!

RIGHT FACE!

FORWARD MARCH!


Left Left Left Left right o left right left.
Your left keep it in step.
Your left keep it in step.

when I get to heaven, st. peter gonna say.
How many beautiful women.

Did you fvck today!
haha...

sorry couldn't help it!
 

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Would have been a great idea for a reality show :)

However finding the guys willing to make a fool out of themselves on national tv while chatting up girls with hidden cameras, when they already fear looking into a womans eyes, will be hard :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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We could arrange a bootcamp at our local Lairs. That might actually be kinda cool.

*shrug*

~Vibe~
 

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Originally posted by Inc. ©
Usually the bootcamp goes like this:

50 people sign up

80% of them go out and say hi to a bunch of old people and think they are pimping.

50% of them manage to ask an HB for directions or something.

Only 1 or 2 is left when you actually have to talk to women!

I swear - nobody seems to make it past week 2. It's a waste of time. Just do cold approaches if you want to improve!
From personal experience, around 50% of the people who sign up make it to week2 and only few guys make it as far as week4 which is still more than "I swear - nobody seems to make it past week 2."

Also while it may look like BC is a waste of time, it worked very well for me. Now that I'm out of the STR that I got from the BC, I'm considering doing a new BC in November.
 
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