Jimi Frusciate
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Ok, i downloaded the pdf and i'm starting this thing right away. My english is bad, so my reports will be short.
Wish me luck, guys!
Wish me luck, guys!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Boot Camp Journal (2)
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Jimi Frusciate
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one question before i begin.
Goal is to say hi to 50 strangers. But should they reply?
For example, am i done if i just say hi to 50 people and get like 5-10 of them saying hi to me, or i need to get them all to reply to me?
i'm confused .
Goal is to say hi to 50 strangers. But should they reply?
For example, am i done if i just say hi to 50 people and get like 5-10 of them saying hi to me, or i need to get them all to reply to me?
i'm confused
.Your goal is to make eyecontact with them then greet them...but sometimes, especially when your first learning they all won't go good and a lot of time its out of your control if they respond or not
but as long as you give it an honest effort its fine to count it. (even if they don't respond)
but as long as you give it an honest effort its fine to count it. (even if they don't respond)
Jimi Frusciate
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Hi EFFORT, thank you for your reply.
I went out and i had no problems with EC exercise, but i dodn't menage to say hello even once . i'm too shy, but nevermind, i'll do it better next time.
tonight i'm going to same metal gig on open air... I might try some stuff there...
I went out and i had no problems with EC exercise, but i dodn't menage to say hello even once
. i'm too shy, but nevermind, i'll do it better next time.tonight i'm going to same metal gig on open air... I might try some stuff there...
Jimi Frusciate
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ok i'm home. i came back from that gig......... i got drunk (i as there with my bafc friends).
i didnt approach any1 an d i fell like slleeping bow... tommoroe i'll try to finnish the seconf exerxciese.
tommoroew is su nday and i'll try to say he.lo to all 50 people and finnish tjis ****ing exercise//////////////
i didnt approach any1 an d i fell like slleeping bow... tommoroe i'll try to finnish the seconf exerxciese.
tommoroew is su nday and i'll try to say he.lo to all 50 people and finnish tjis ****ing exercise//////////////
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Jimi Frusciate
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Week 1 Day 2
It's sunday... i woke up very late (about noon) and i spent something like 6 hours in front of computer...
The Weather wasnt really lovely today so i decided to stay home. Tommorow is a school day, i'll start "hellos" exercise.
I think that i should stop sitting in front of the computer, it eats up my time... I'm going to print this material out. I'll just go to a "Net caffe" every day and spend half an hour there just tu put up my reports.
and one more thing - NO MORE PORN. it's another fukking waste of time...
I have one more thing to say... I decided to try the gunwitch method at the same time while attending this bootcamp. I will probably fail, but anyway, it may happen to me to just overcome my fear overnight and get into a game directly .
It's sunday... i woke up very late (about noon) and i spent something like 6 hours in front of computer...
The Weather wasnt really lovely today so i decided to stay home. Tommorow is a school day, i'll start "hellos" exercise.
I think that i should stop sitting in front of the computer, it eats up my time... I'm going to print this material out. I'll just go to a "Net caffe" every day and spend half an hour there just tu put up my reports.
and one more thing - NO MORE PORN. it's another fukking waste of time...
I have one more thing to say... I decided to try the gunwitch method at the same time while attending this bootcamp. I will probably fail, but anyway, it may happen to me to just overcome my fear overnight and get into a game directly
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