Jimi Frusciate
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Ok, i downloaded the pdf and i'm starting this thing right away. My english is bad, so my reports will be short.
Wish me luck, guys!
Wish me luck, guys!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Jimi Frusciate
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one question before i begin.
Goal is to say hi to 50 strangers. But should they reply?
For example, am i done if i just say hi to 50 people and get like 5-10 of them saying hi to me, or i need to get them all to reply to me?
i'm confused .
Goal is to say hi to 50 strangers. But should they reply?
For example, am i done if i just say hi to 50 people and get like 5-10 of them saying hi to me, or i need to get them all to reply to me?
i'm confused
.Your goal is to make eyecontact with them then greet them...but sometimes, especially when your first learning they all won't go good and a lot of time its out of your control if they respond or not
but as long as you give it an honest effort its fine to count it. (even if they don't respond)
but as long as you give it an honest effort its fine to count it. (even if they don't respond)
Jimi Frusciate
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Hi EFFORT, thank you for your reply.
I went out and i had no problems with EC exercise, but i dodn't menage to say hello even once . i'm too shy, but nevermind, i'll do it better next time.
tonight i'm going to same metal gig on open air... I might try some stuff there...
I went out and i had no problems with EC exercise, but i dodn't menage to say hello even once
. i'm too shy, but nevermind, i'll do it better next time.tonight i'm going to same metal gig on open air... I might try some stuff there...
Jimi Frusciate
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ok i'm home. i came back from that gig......... i got drunk (i as there with my bafc friends).
i didnt approach any1 an d i fell like slleeping bow... tommoroe i'll try to finnish the seconf exerxciese.
tommoroew is su nday and i'll try to say he.lo to all 50 people and finnish tjis ****ing exercise//////////////
i didnt approach any1 an d i fell like slleeping bow... tommoroe i'll try to finnish the seconf exerxciese.
tommoroew is su nday and i'll try to say he.lo to all 50 people and finnish tjis ****ing exercise//////////////
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Jimi Frusciate
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Week 1 Day 2
It's sunday... i woke up very late (about noon) and i spent something like 6 hours in front of computer...
The Weather wasnt really lovely today so i decided to stay home. Tommorow is a school day, i'll start "hellos" exercise.
I think that i should stop sitting in front of the computer, it eats up my time... I'm going to print this material out. I'll just go to a "Net caffe" every day and spend half an hour there just tu put up my reports.
and one more thing - NO MORE PORN. it's another fukking waste of time...
I have one more thing to say... I decided to try the gunwitch method at the same time while attending this bootcamp. I will probably fail, but anyway, it may happen to me to just overcome my fear overnight and get into a game directly .
It's sunday... i woke up very late (about noon) and i spent something like 6 hours in front of computer...
The Weather wasnt really lovely today so i decided to stay home. Tommorow is a school day, i'll start "hellos" exercise.
I think that i should stop sitting in front of the computer, it eats up my time... I'm going to print this material out. I'll just go to a "Net caffe" every day and spend half an hour there just tu put up my reports.
and one more thing - NO MORE PORN. it's another fukking waste of time...
I have one more thing to say... I decided to try the gunwitch method at the same time while attending this bootcamp. I will probably fail, but anyway, it may happen to me to just overcome my fear overnight and get into a game directly
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