steve_erkle
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Need a few entertaining books to read. Not interested in self-improvement type books, just novels. Also, i am in highschool. Any suggestions guys?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
War Against Betaism
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The Game by Neil Strauss.
steve_erkle
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Cr1msonKing said:Well what kind of genre are you in to?
What are you into?
What do you want to gain by reading?
I guess adventure novels, i like excitement
I just want to start reading again for enjoyment and for my mind
Hey man, I started reading for fun again recently after only reading for school/self help. I have a couple suggestions in my approach journal. Check it out and let me know if you want more detail. The best one so far is Killing Time by Frank Tallis
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
+1.War Against Betaism said:The Game by Neil Strauss.
DAVAGINA CODE...........it will make you laugh, cry, and jump up in triumphant rejoice..........real live examples, adventures, theories, IPODS, evil villians like DR. Neil Carter, AFC's and cool girl next doors costars.
excuse me I gotta toot my own horn BE RIGHT BACK.........
excuse me I gotta toot my own horn BE RIGHT BACK.........
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How To Make Love Like A Porn Star
Jenna Jameson's Auto Biography
Its Xpensive But Sit Down At Barns And Noble For An Hour A Day
Its Full Of Her Photos Nude
Jenna Jameson's Auto Biography
Its Xpensive But Sit Down At Barns And Noble For An Hour A Day
Its Full Of Her Photos Nude
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Hope they Serve Beer in Hell - Tucker Max
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I read The Big Sleep... Good book with a crazy endingDarth said:Raymond Chandler. I love his books. Great if you're into detective thrillers.
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2nd that. Great storiesTheHumanist said:Hope they Serve Beer in Hell - Tucker Max
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Some of my favorites:
-The Pillars of the Earth (Ken Follet)
-World Without End (Ken Follet)
-First Man in Rome (Can't remember the author...)
-The Agony and the Ecstasy (Irving Stone)
-The Godfather (Mario Puzo...better than the movie)
-The House of the Spirits (Allende, historical fiction in Chile)
-Anything by Michael Criton (sp?), especially Jurassic Park, Timeline, and Sphere
-The Pillars of the Earth (Ken Follet)
-World Without End (Ken Follet)
-First Man in Rome (Can't remember the author...)
-The Agony and the Ecstasy (Irving Stone)
-The Godfather (Mario Puzo...better than the movie)
-The House of the Spirits (Allende, historical fiction in Chile)
-Anything by Michael Criton (sp?), especially Jurassic Park, Timeline, and Sphere