"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Need a few entertaining books to read. Not interested in self-improvement type books, just novels. Also, i am in highschool. Any suggestions guys?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cr1msonKing said:
Well what kind of genre are you in to?


What are you into?


What do you want to gain by reading?

I guess adventure novels, i like excitement

I just want to start reading again for enjoyment and for my mind
 

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Hey man, I started reading for fun again recently after only reading for school/self help. I have a couple suggestions in my approach journal. Check it out and let me know if you want more detail. The best one so far is Killing Time by Frank Tallis
 

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Try Gates of Fire by Steven Pressfield. Historical fiction set in Ancient Sparta.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Raymond Chandler. I love his books. Great if you're into detective thrillers.
 

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DAVAGINA CODE...........it will make you laugh, cry, and jump up in triumphant rejoice..........real live examples, adventures, theories, IPODS, evil villians like DR. Neil Carter, AFC's and cool girl next doors costars.

excuse me I gotta toot my own horn BE RIGHT BACK.........
 

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How To Make Love Like A Porn Star
Jenna Jameson's Auto Biography
Its Xpensive But Sit Down At Barns And Noble For An Hour A Day
Its Full Of Her Photos Nude
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Darth said:
Raymond Chandler. I love his books. Great if you're into detective thrillers.
I read The Big Sleep... Good book with a crazy ending
 

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Some of my favorites:

-The Pillars of the Earth (Ken Follet)
-World Without End (Ken Follet)
-First Man in Rome (Can't remember the author...)
-The Agony and the Ecstasy (Irving Stone)
-The Godfather (Mario Puzo...better than the movie)
-The House of the Spirits (Allende, historical fiction in Chile)
-Anything by Michael Criton (sp?), especially Jurassic Park, Timeline, and Sphere
 
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