"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need a few entertaining books to read. Not interested in self-improvement type books, just novels. Also, i am in highschool. Any suggestions guys?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cr1msonKing said:
Well what kind of genre are you in to?


What are you into?


What do you want to gain by reading?

I guess adventure novels, i like excitement

I just want to start reading again for enjoyment and for my mind
 

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Hey man, I started reading for fun again recently after only reading for school/self help. I have a couple suggestions in my approach journal. Check it out and let me know if you want more detail. The best one so far is Killing Time by Frank Tallis
 

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Try Gates of Fire by Steven Pressfield. Historical fiction set in Ancient Sparta.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Raymond Chandler. I love his books. Great if you're into detective thrillers.
 

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DAVAGINA CODE...........it will make you laugh, cry, and jump up in triumphant rejoice..........real live examples, adventures, theories, IPODS, evil villians like DR. Neil Carter, AFC's and cool girl next doors costars.

excuse me I gotta toot my own horn BE RIGHT BACK.........
 

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How To Make Love Like A Porn Star
Jenna Jameson's Auto Biography
Its Xpensive But Sit Down At Barns And Noble For An Hour A Day
Its Full Of Her Photos Nude
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Darth said:
Raymond Chandler. I love his books. Great if you're into detective thrillers.
I read The Big Sleep... Good book with a crazy ending
 

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Some of my favorites:

-The Pillars of the Earth (Ken Follet)
-World Without End (Ken Follet)
-First Man in Rome (Can't remember the author...)
-The Agony and the Ecstasy (Irving Stone)
-The Godfather (Mario Puzo...better than the movie)
-The House of the Spirits (Allende, historical fiction in Chile)
-Anything by Michael Criton (sp?), especially Jurassic Park, Timeline, and Sphere
 
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