You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

I'm disappointed that you didn't come back to play. From the changes in your profile pic, it looks like you've been busy trying on different black bras. You really should try to pencil in some time.Man... Looking up this Dazzle Razzle guy... He is no pimp, do not get it confused.
His writings look like the rantings and ravings of an insane PCP addicted maniac... He literally makes NO points, and fills his writings with absurd jargon, pointless equations, unproven theories, he likes to use big words but does not seem to know the meaning of said words so it was more funny to read it and laugh at his horrible grammar, it is total junk.
http://dazzlerazzle.com/pimpontology/
Your move...
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I already lost interest. The last time I responded with the whole "horrible grammar" was just to bait you. You are either this dazzle razzle or you are some kind of direct associate of his who has some extreme obsession with him.I'm disappointed that you didn't come back to play. From the changes in your profile pic, it looks like you've been busy trying on different black bras. You really should try to pencil in some time.