"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Books on pimping? Recommendations
- Thread starter rEDoNE
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Then you mention said thing... Let me guess "How to be a M****f***** Pimp" by Dazzle Razzle... and promote it as an "excellent" book.
I would have guessed as much, but you already showed your cards by posting messages to every person with "pimp" in their name. Though most people with pimp in their name are likely NOT a pimp, but rather are selecting such a name due to vicarious desires they have. But you feed on those desires and make them think it is possible, and thus your selection of such.
Oh how predictable... I swear, people are so predictable. I love this little game people play...
His writings look like the rantings and ravings of an insane PCP addicted maniac... He literally makes NO points, and fills his writings with absurd jargon, pointless equations, unproven theories, he likes to use big words but does not seem to know the meaning of said words so it was more funny to read it and laugh at his horrible grammar, it is total junk.
http://dazzlerazzle.com/pimpontology/
Your move...
I'm disappointed that you didn't come back to play. From the changes in your profile pic, it looks like you've been busy trying on different black bras. You really should try to pencil in some time.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I already lost interest. The last time I responded with the whole "horrible grammar" was just to bait you. You are either this dazzle razzle or you are some kind of direct associate of his who has some extreme obsession with him.
And why exactly should I waste my time with you?
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Looking back, I can see that I am a product of How to Be a Mother****ing Pimp. It might have warped my mind a bit, but I learned how to make crack, meth, and PCP. Perhaps that's the problem. I also learned how to come to terms with existence through a critical interrogation of street culture and how to embrace post-structuralism, or the 'sense of it', if you will, when it all seemed just so esoteric.
I remember, looking back when I was a grad student (Phd Lit), it was hard for me. There is simply too much to digest, and where do you start anyway? You can't just 'read' Derrida, can you, without being fully versed in the entirety of the western philosophical tradition?
I found this book accessible. I struggled in places, but that is the performative dimension. Perhaps therein lies the charm.
Don't know. See for yourself. Maybe it is an entire crock of ****. But, then again...