"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've read never split the difference and how to win friends and influence people, both are great books and have some great insight. I'm still curious on the subject though, are there any books or classes that could help a guy say... negotiate better pay, or bring down the cost of a vehicle or place of residence? I'm about to graduate college and although i'm sure I wont be struggling financially that bad, any extra bits of info would definitely give me an edge.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've read never split the difference and how to win friends and influence people, both are great books and have some great insight. I'm still curious on the subject though, are there any books or classes that could help a guy say... negotiate better pay, or bring down the cost of a vehicle or place of residence? I'm about to graduate college and although i'm sure I wont be struggling financially that bad, any extra bits of info would definitely give me an edge.
I'm searching for this too.

Thanks for the first book title you mentioned, I read the second one a long time ago but should read again.

A book title I was told by an internet acquaintance that would be good to learn negotiation techniques indirectly is Psycho-Cybernetics by Maltz. I will begin that one as soon as I finish this one that I'm about to sign off and finally finish reading today(Atomic Habits by Clear)
After that I have a NLP for Dummies book by the 'Dummies' series of books that could also teach negotiation techniques.

We'll see. I'll report back.
 

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The Master Class by Chris Voss is what I want to watch, but im not sure if the whole site is like a scam yet or what idk
 

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"Grow some balls and go for it with a IDGAF attitude"
That has served me well...

It's called outcome independence to some...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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