"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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  1. Bigselfimprovementguy

    books on negotiation

    I've read never split the difference and how to win friends and influence people, both are great books and have some great insight. I'm still curious on the subject though, are there any books or classes that could help a guy say... negotiate better pay, or bring down the cost of a vehicle or...
  2. G

    Possible study buddy situation with potential

    Hi, all! This is actually my first time posting on this site (or any really) so I'll just get right to it. There is this girl who's in one of my science courses who figured out that I made a really good grade on our latest test. She has already smiled at me before this in lab like the day I got...
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