AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Oops I read the forum topic wrong lol. But f'uck it. It's still a good movie. 
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yes. Just ask questions and let her say everything.You talk less, ask her more about her and simply let her talk. Most women have no problem talking a lot, the hard part for some guys is usually to shut up and let her.
Calm your tits, buddy. You are free to state your own opinions without having to degrade mine.TRIGGER WARNER (try not get your knickers in a twist)
This is cringe. Compliment her on her dress????? It doesn't matter if you're being truthful or not?? This is high level validation seeking cringe. Women spot this sucking up to them in an unauthentic way. You're validation seeking and inauthenticity reveal your beta nature.
Seriously your comment reminded me of the series "Bottom": two clueless losers flat sharing, the main character (played by the hilarious and zany Rik Mayall) Richard (Richard the frog?) never knows what to say to women and his opening line is often "Lovely blouse....." and his follow up "do you often wear blouses?" You are Richard The Frog.
Note: The "let her talk more" is not wrong per se.....however, you as a MAN don't want to sit there listen to her babble on about crap that you have no interest in. This is full blowing DALE CARNEGIE RETARD VALIDATION SEEKING MODE. It's not authentic and it's not how two adults converse.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Ok. I'll try that. Thanks!Replace it with "I gotta go now"
@Grinderman is that Drop Dead Fred?TRIGGER WARNER (try not get your knickers in a twist)
This is cringe. Compliment her on her dress????? It doesn't matter if you're being truthful or not?? This is high level validation seeking cringe. Women spot this sucking up to them in an unauthentic way. You're validation seeking and inauthenticity reveal your beta nature.
Note: The "let her talk more" is not wrong per se.....however, you as a MAN don't want to sit there listen to her babble on about crap that you have no interest in. This is full blowing DALE CARNEGIE RETARD VALIDATION SEEKING MODE. It's not authentic and it's not how two adults converse.