"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Books and movies to talk about with women

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So hmm what about the 50 shades of bullsh'it movie series?
It's true porn for chicks and they all love it..
 
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Serenity said:
You talk less, ask her more about her and simply let her talk. Most women have no problem talking a lot, the hard part for some guys is usually to shut up and let her.
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Yes. Just ask questions and let her say everything.
 
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I'd love to talk books with women, but it's so rare I find any of them give a damn...unless it's celebrity autobiographies or Dan Brown. :rolleyes:
 
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Grinderman said:
TRIGGER WARNER (try not get your knickers in a twist)

This is cringe. Compliment her on her dress????? It doesn't matter if you're being truthful or not?? This is high level validation seeking cringe. Women spot this sucking up to them in an unauthentic way. You're validation seeking and inauthenticity reveal your beta nature.

Seriously your comment reminded me of the series "Bottom": two clueless losers flat sharing, the main character (played by the hilarious and zany Rik Mayall) Richard (Richard the frog?) never knows what to say to women and his opening line is often "Lovely blouse....." and his follow up "do you often wear blouses?" You are Richard The Frog.

Note: The "let her talk more" is not wrong per se.....however, you as a MAN don't want to sit there listen to her babble on about crap that you have no interest in. This is full blowing DALE CARNEGIE RETARD VALIDATION SEEKING MODE. It's not authentic and it's not how two adults converse.

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Calm your tits, buddy. You are free to state your own opinions without having to degrade mine.

Unlike you, my methods didn't come from TV series, but from real-life, personal experience. What I wrote in this thread was applied countless times by myself, and most of the times they worked, at least for me.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Grinderman said:
TRIGGER WARNER (try not get your knickers in a twist)

This is cringe. Compliment her on her dress????? It doesn't matter if you're being truthful or not?? This is high level validation seeking cringe. Women spot this sucking up to them in an unauthentic way. You're validation seeking and inauthenticity reveal your beta nature.

Note: The "let her talk more" is not wrong per se.....however, you as a MAN don't want to sit there listen to her babble on about crap that you have no interest in. This is full blowing DALE CARNEGIE RETARD VALIDATION SEEKING MODE. It's not authentic and it's not how two adults converse.
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@Grinderman is that Drop Dead Fred?

 
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