"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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boneable chick @ work, should i hit it?

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Anyways, since hte first day she began working (a month ago), she has had very high IL in me and still does.

But since i have no real interest in her, nor see a "date your co-worker" thing ever happen successfully for anyone on this board... I havent gamed her at all, nor kino.

But she's trying harder every day to get my attention and find a way to bug me when im working. And i notice she laughs at all my jokes.

It would be wrong to fvck her one day and forget her the next. but since i have no real interest in her, i would most likely ignore her afterwards. But it also seems so wrong to not take advantage of an open opportunity to bone her. in the end, all girls just want to be fvcked....

Anybody been through this situation, and can inform me what i would have to expect if i do go through with this? or possibly something i will regret if i dont go through with this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It would be wrong to fvck her one day and forget her the next. but since i have no real interest in her, i would most likely ignore her afterwards. But it also seems so wrong to not take advantage of an open opportunity to bone her. in the end, all girls just want to be fvcked....
For fvcks sake man. Yeah you can nail her and then forget about it but can she do the same? Get past the concept that you need to nail every girl who wants to nail you and put yourself in a position where you are able to turn down girls at work that want to hook up for better (read more sane) encounters.
 

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Originally posted by belividere
For fvcks sake man. Yeah you can nail her and then forget about it but can she do the same? Get past the concept that you need to nail every girl who wants to nail you and put yourself in a position where you are able to turn down girls at work that want to hook up for better (read more sane) encounters.
Ditto, for the most part, but keep in mind you might have regrets later...
 

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basically to summarize what you said, problems will occur at work if i get involved with her, one way or another....
 

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I'd advise you don't do this. Totally agree with the last couple posters. Just cuz they want to bang you, doesn't mean you have to! There'll just be alot of awkwardness (and possible drama) if you did decide to go thru with this. Very unnecessary.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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so in the end, even dating is out of the question.

ahhh....the woes of working with women...

this is already turning lopsided, she's began kinoing me today. whats going to be next? sexual harassment!!! nooooooooo
 

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It is your choice. Just keep in mind. All the romance and chickflick movies where people fall in love at the workplace are in largepart fiction.
 

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Work is stressful enough dude. You don't need the added hassle of an emotional woman breathing down your neck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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