"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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boneable chick @ work, should i hit it?

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Anyways, since hte first day she began working (a month ago), she has had very high IL in me and still does.

But since i have no real interest in her, nor see a "date your co-worker" thing ever happen successfully for anyone on this board... I havent gamed her at all, nor kino.

But she's trying harder every day to get my attention and find a way to bug me when im working. And i notice she laughs at all my jokes.

It would be wrong to fvck her one day and forget her the next. but since i have no real interest in her, i would most likely ignore her afterwards. But it also seems so wrong to not take advantage of an open opportunity to bone her. in the end, all girls just want to be fvcked....

Anybody been through this situation, and can inform me what i would have to expect if i do go through with this? or possibly something i will regret if i dont go through with this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It would be wrong to fvck her one day and forget her the next. but since i have no real interest in her, i would most likely ignore her afterwards. But it also seems so wrong to not take advantage of an open opportunity to bone her. in the end, all girls just want to be fvcked....
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For fvcks sake man. Yeah you can nail her and then forget about it but can she do the same? Get past the concept that you need to nail every girl who wants to nail you and put yourself in a position where you are able to turn down girls at work that want to hook up for better (read more sane) encounters.
 
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Originally posted by belividere
For fvcks sake man. Yeah you can nail her and then forget about it but can she do the same? Get past the concept that you need to nail every girl who wants to nail you and put yourself in a position where you are able to turn down girls at work that want to hook up for better (read more sane) encounters.
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Ditto, for the most part, but keep in mind you might have regrets later...
 
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basically to summarize what you said, problems will occur at work if i get involved with her, one way or another....
 
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I'd advise you don't do this. Totally agree with the last couple posters. Just cuz they want to bang you, doesn't mean you have to! There'll just be alot of awkwardness (and possible drama) if you did decide to go thru with this. Very unnecessary.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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so in the end, even dating is out of the question.

ahhh....the woes of working with women...

this is already turning lopsided, she's began kinoing me today. whats going to be next? sexual harassment!!! nooooooooo
 
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It is your choice. Just keep in mind. All the romance and chickflick movies where people fall in love at the workplace are in largepart fiction.
 
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Work is stressful enough dude. You don't need the added hassle of an emotional woman breathing down your neck.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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