"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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boneable chick @ work, should i hit it?

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Anyways, since hte first day she began working (a month ago), she has had very high IL in me and still does.

But since i have no real interest in her, nor see a "date your co-worker" thing ever happen successfully for anyone on this board... I havent gamed her at all, nor kino.

But she's trying harder every day to get my attention and find a way to bug me when im working. And i notice she laughs at all my jokes.

It would be wrong to fvck her one day and forget her the next. but since i have no real interest in her, i would most likely ignore her afterwards. But it also seems so wrong to not take advantage of an open opportunity to bone her. in the end, all girls just want to be fvcked....

Anybody been through this situation, and can inform me what i would have to expect if i do go through with this? or possibly something i will regret if i dont go through with this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It would be wrong to fvck her one day and forget her the next. but since i have no real interest in her, i would most likely ignore her afterwards. But it also seems so wrong to not take advantage of an open opportunity to bone her. in the end, all girls just want to be fvcked....
For fvcks sake man. Yeah you can nail her and then forget about it but can she do the same? Get past the concept that you need to nail every girl who wants to nail you and put yourself in a position where you are able to turn down girls at work that want to hook up for better (read more sane) encounters.
 

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Originally posted by belividere
For fvcks sake man. Yeah you can nail her and then forget about it but can she do the same? Get past the concept that you need to nail every girl who wants to nail you and put yourself in a position where you are able to turn down girls at work that want to hook up for better (read more sane) encounters.
Ditto, for the most part, but keep in mind you might have regrets later...
 

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basically to summarize what you said, problems will occur at work if i get involved with her, one way or another....
 

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I'd advise you don't do this. Totally agree with the last couple posters. Just cuz they want to bang you, doesn't mean you have to! There'll just be alot of awkwardness (and possible drama) if you did decide to go thru with this. Very unnecessary.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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so in the end, even dating is out of the question.

ahhh....the woes of working with women...

this is already turning lopsided, she's began kinoing me today. whats going to be next? sexual harassment!!! nooooooooo
 

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It is your choice. Just keep in mind. All the romance and chickflick movies where people fall in love at the workplace are in largepart fiction.
 

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Work is stressful enough dude. You don't need the added hassle of an emotional woman breathing down your neck.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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