"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bodybuilding.com POF discussion threads V.1, 2, 3, 4

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Naughty Ninja said:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=132621003&page=1

Or just Google: Plenty of Fish discussion thread v.4 or Plenty of Fish discussion threads bodybuilding.com
the reason your other links arent working is because the shortened url you are using actually contains the shortened version of the url in the hyperlink, which will not work. idk why it did that but the normal url should be contained in the hyperlink of a shortened url. once theyre working id love to chek em out
 

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the third eye said:
the reason your other links arent working is because the shortened url you are using actually contains the shortened version of the url in the hyperlink, which will not work. idk why it did that but the normal url should be contained in the hyperlink of a shortened url. once theyre working id love to chek em out
Google Plenty of Fish discussion thread v.4

If none of you are familiar with using Google yet, then good luck.
 

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POF is a has-been. I'm more interested in figuring out what the next pick-up site is going to be versus wasting my time beating a dead horse.

I've had some nibbles briefly using Skout and other online dating apps for my smart phone. My feeling is that's the new direction we're headed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Very true of is done, I got over 30 numbers and 8 lays last summer. Now the past 3 months rarely get responses or girls contacting me. Its a wrap
 

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Some of those dudes know what they are doing to work for them.

The MAIN key for POF is looking your best and working out. PERIOD. Best pictures. Action work well. Shirtless BEACH pics or tank tops.

Next a good UNIQUE message. (funny but seemingly complimentary to the chick.)

BRIEF funny and interesting profile.

Then NORMAL conversation. three or four messages. Give me your number.

Keep spamming. I don't give a sh!t what they say on their profile or how they look. they are ALL using online dating for GOOD reason. Don't EVER forget it.

Just remember. POF is INFESTED completely with BOTTOM of the barrel chicks. This CANNOT BE STRESSED ENOUGH. If she isn't biting your bait she's sending nudes to better looking ****ier/ more funny guys and or getting pumped and dumped. Don't kid yourselves.

But if you want to pass time and possibly meet trash to get some. Go ahead.

I did it strictly for the lulz. Like it or not.
 

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Marvin Gaye said:
Strong aware.jpg in this thread!!


Anyone with half an ounce of gray matter in their head was aware long before Bodybuilding.com put up their discussion threads.

Hell 90% of those dudes STILL have ZERO clue of how to talk to chicks WITHOUT just copy and pasting replies. Pathetic.
 
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