"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bodybuilding.com POF discussion threads V.1, 2, 3, 4

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Naughty Ninja said:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=132621003&page=1

Or just Google: Plenty of Fish discussion thread v.4 or Plenty of Fish discussion threads bodybuilding.com
the reason your other links arent working is because the shortened url you are using actually contains the shortened version of the url in the hyperlink, which will not work. idk why it did that but the normal url should be contained in the hyperlink of a shortened url. once theyre working id love to chek em out
 

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the third eye said:
the reason your other links arent working is because the shortened url you are using actually contains the shortened version of the url in the hyperlink, which will not work. idk why it did that but the normal url should be contained in the hyperlink of a shortened url. once theyre working id love to chek em out
Google Plenty of Fish discussion thread v.4

If none of you are familiar with using Google yet, then good luck.
 

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POF is a has-been. I'm more interested in figuring out what the next pick-up site is going to be versus wasting my time beating a dead horse.

I've had some nibbles briefly using Skout and other online dating apps for my smart phone. My feeling is that's the new direction we're headed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Very true of is done, I got over 30 numbers and 8 lays last summer. Now the past 3 months rarely get responses or girls contacting me. Its a wrap
 

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Some of those dudes know what they are doing to work for them.

The MAIN key for POF is looking your best and working out. PERIOD. Best pictures. Action work well. Shirtless BEACH pics or tank tops.

Next a good UNIQUE message. (funny but seemingly complimentary to the chick.)

BRIEF funny and interesting profile.

Then NORMAL conversation. three or four messages. Give me your number.

Keep spamming. I don't give a sh!t what they say on their profile or how they look. they are ALL using online dating for GOOD reason. Don't EVER forget it.

Just remember. POF is INFESTED completely with BOTTOM of the barrel chicks. This CANNOT BE STRESSED ENOUGH. If she isn't biting your bait she's sending nudes to better looking ****ier/ more funny guys and or getting pumped and dumped. Don't kid yourselves.

But if you want to pass time and possibly meet trash to get some. Go ahead.

I did it strictly for the lulz. Like it or not.
 

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Marvin Gaye said:
Strong aware.jpg in this thread!!


Anyone with half an ounce of gray matter in their head was aware long before Bodybuilding.com put up their discussion threads.

Hell 90% of those dudes STILL have ZERO clue of how to talk to chicks WITHOUT just copy and pasting replies. Pathetic.
 
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