"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bodybuilding.com POF discussion threads V.1, 2, 3, 4

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Naughty Ninja said:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=132621003&page=1

Or just Google: Plenty of Fish discussion thread v.4 or Plenty of Fish discussion threads bodybuilding.com
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the reason your other links arent working is because the shortened url you are using actually contains the shortened version of the url in the hyperlink, which will not work. idk why it did that but the normal url should be contained in the hyperlink of a shortened url. once theyre working id love to chek em out
 
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the third eye said:
the reason your other links arent working is because the shortened url you are using actually contains the shortened version of the url in the hyperlink, which will not work. idk why it did that but the normal url should be contained in the hyperlink of a shortened url. once theyre working id love to chek em out
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Google Plenty of Fish discussion thread v.4

If none of you are familiar with using Google yet, then good luck.
 
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POF is a has-been. I'm more interested in figuring out what the next pick-up site is going to be versus wasting my time beating a dead horse.

I've had some nibbles briefly using Skout and other online dating apps for my smart phone. My feeling is that's the new direction we're headed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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Very true of is done, I got over 30 numbers and 8 lays last summer. Now the past 3 months rarely get responses or girls contacting me. Its a wrap
 
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Some of those dudes know what they are doing to work for them.

The MAIN key for POF is looking your best and working out. PERIOD. Best pictures. Action work well. Shirtless BEACH pics or tank tops.

Next a good UNIQUE message. (funny but seemingly complimentary to the chick.)

BRIEF funny and interesting profile.

Then NORMAL conversation. three or four messages. Give me your number.

Keep spamming. I don't give a sh!t what they say on their profile or how they look. they are ALL using online dating for GOOD reason. Don't EVER forget it.

Just remember. POF is INFESTED completely with BOTTOM of the barrel chicks. This CANNOT BE STRESSED ENOUGH. If she isn't biting your bait she's sending nudes to better looking ****ier/ more funny guys and or getting pumped and dumped. Don't kid yourselves.

But if you want to pass time and possibly meet trash to get some. Go ahead.

I did it strictly for the lulz. Like it or not.
 
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Marvin Gaye said:
Strong aware.jpg in this thread!!
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Anyone with half an ounce of gray matter in their head was aware long before Bodybuilding.com put up their discussion threads.

Hell 90% of those dudes STILL have ZERO clue of how to talk to chicks WITHOUT just copy and pasting replies. Pathetic.
 
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