"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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body wash liquid vs soap in cleaniness?

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Is there difference between regular soap vs. body wash liquid? Does bodywash cleand body better because it doesn't leave calcium like soap?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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picard said:
Is there difference between regular soap vs. body wash liquid? Does bodywash cleand body better because it doesn't leave calcium like soap?
You should try dish detergent. It works wonders!
 

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Dish detergent is too harsh. You will damage your skin, possibly leaving yourself open to premature aging skin or cancer.

Irish Spring soap is the best. I use nothing else.
 
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Dish detergent is too harsh. You will damage your skin, possibly leaving yourself open to premature aging skin or cancer.

Irish Spring soap is the best. I use nothing else.
That was a joke.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Try Clorox Bleach
 
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Bar soap is better, it has little scent and won't mix with your colonge which is required if you want to smell good for the whole day. It's also cheaper and all those bodywash smell the same = BORING.
 

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This is coming from a dermatologist I go to...


Pick a Dove bar soap anti-bacterial. It's the lightest, does the job, and doesn't **** up your skin.
 

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liquid and bar soap do the same trick.
liquid is more convenient and bar soap is cheaper.
some people are allergic to different kinds of soaps.
if you use liquid with one of those puffy things, it will help with dry skin because that puffy thing with flake the old dry stuff off better than a washcloth.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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liquid bodywash seem expensive. are the companies fleecing us?
 
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