"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CaptainSK

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This is my first post! Ok, there is this chick in my class that sits beside me and I'm pretty sure shes attracted to me:rockon: . at least a bit
Yesterday I noticed something weird but im not sure if its just my imagination: I felt like she was imitating my posture... leaning back or foward crossing my arms and or legs... every time id move It was like soon after she would follow and sit in a way that would match my posture.

Now I've heard of imitating the posture of a girl while talking to hear to connect better but can girls do this without noticing?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MurdocNiccals

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I noticed a girl do this to me but I didn't think she was interested... Hope so, she's hot >: )
 

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Its call mirroring and we all do it without thinking about it all the time, but often its one of the signs of attraction in a boy/girl situation.

Try a couple of moves such as deliberately sitting back or forward, scratching your neck or yawning to see is she copies...
 

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"Try a couple of moves such as deliberately sitting back or forward, scratching your neck or yawning to see is she copies."

to me she has already given you enough attraction signs, you can try one more time to see if she really is coping your moves, can be a sign of attraction... make your move already! or stop whinning about it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Acq said:

lol is right.

If you like her, just ask her out. We can't sit back, reading imaginary signs waiting for everything to be jusssst perfect before asking someone out. If you like her, talk to her - make her laugh, if she's laughing, try to take the good vibe and bring it out of the classroom. And preferably to a bar....
 

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put your hand on your crotch, if she mirrors it and her hand ends up on your crotch too, she likes you.
really just talk to her, trying only to read body language will screw with your head.
 

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Try a couple of moves such as deliberately sitting back or forward, scratching your neck or yawning to see is she copies...[/QUOTE]

I did but nothing as obvious as yawning. But I'm positive now I have a green light and I know it. Il see her next class and make a move.

Tnx guys for helping me step in the world of the Djs
 

PapiChulo

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Stop reading into different signs -just go ask her out. Reading body language is a hit and miss thing - better just flip a coin unless you are an expert on this thing.
 

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Yes they do, now when you're in class try raising your left hand and putting it on your nose, then rub your belly with your right hand.

If she does this then I'm sure she's mirroring you or her nose is itchy and her stomach hurts...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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